婚姻是什么？

 hunyin，zheigecijingchangzairenmenkouzhongshuochu，zaixiaoshuohunyinshizenyanglianchengdeyudianshijiemuliujialingtanhunyinshenghuodouyoutidaoguo，danhunyinjiujingweihewu，hunyinshishenmeni？jiexialaiwomenqukankanba。

一、婚姻是天堂还是地狱

 zaihunyinzhongzhaodaoxingfuderenshuohunyinshitiantang，zaihunyinzhonghejinkushuiderenshuohunyinshidiyu。hunyinbeituidaolerenmenxiangwanghekongjudeliangji，hunyinchuxianlexuanzhiyouxuandeshenmisecai。rangnanrenhenvrenyujinyutui，nanyibawo，qishihunyintajibuzaitiantang，yebuzaidiyu，qishihunyinzuizhenshideweizhizairenjian。yinweirenduihunyinjituodexiwangtaiduotaiduo，xiangconghunyinzhonghuoqutaiduo，jihunyintayiweile，yidaoletiantang。youyinweihunyinchengzaibuleneimeduodexiwang，erchangchangrangnanrenhenvrenmengxiangluokong。hunyinbianzaicibeiyiweile，yidaolediyu。jiuzheiyang，xuduorendehunyinyizhibuzaizijiyuanyoudeweizhishang。renduihunyindebuman，yedoushiyinweihunyinyaoshitaiduoderenjianyanhuo。

二、婚姻要承担生儿育女

 hunyinyaochengdanshengeryunvderenwu，yaoheyouyanjiangcudajiaodao，yaoguanzuifansuodejiawushi，fuzhezaihunyinshangdegezhongsecaibeipingdanwuqideriziboshidezhishengxiayigejianshinaimodehe——rizi。yushi，bianshihunyinshizenyanglianchengdesuoshuodenanrenhenvrenkaishiduihunyinshiwangle，bazijisuoyoudebukuaidouguizuiyuhunyin，yaohunyinduizijidebukuaifuze。

三、维护婚姻是相互的责任

 hunyinbenshenbucunzaizeren，danshihunyinzhishiyigenanrenheyigenvrenjiehededaimingci，ruguoshuohunyinyouzeren，neimeyeshizhinenggoushizheigenanrenhezheigenvrenxianghudezeren。likaizijidezerenxin，qishiranghunyinlaichengdanzerenchuyuziqiqiren。hunyindecuoweidaozhichunanrenhenvrendeliangzhongxintai：yizhongbianshiguofenxiangxinhunyin，xiangxinhunyinnengjizijixiangyaodeyiqie；lingyizhongshiduihunyindebuxinren，zongdanxinhunyinduozouzijiyuanyoudeyiqie。suoyounanrenhenvrenduihunyindebumandouyuzheizhongxintaiyouguan。

四、爱情和婚姻是递进关系

 yigenvrenshuo：womenaidefeijiehunbukele。yushi，taxiangyourenxuanbuletajiehundejueding。guolexierizi，taconghunyintaochulaishuo：hunyintaipingdan，wowufarenshouzheimepingdandeshenghuo，yushi，tayouxiangyourenxuanbuletalihundexiaoxi。aiqinghehunyinzhendeshiliangmashi，hunyingengduodeshiaiyuzeren。

五、婚姻本身就是平淡的

 hunyinbenshenjiushipingdande，renmenbuganyupingdanshiyinweizongnaaiqingzuoduibinanrenhenvrenzongxiwangbaaiqingzhongbeixiangxianglishandongqilaideqingxuyanshendaohunyinshenghuodemeishimeike，shenzhimeiyigejiaoluo。rangxinlingshikeweiaisuodianran，huohuasijian。liujialingtanhunyinshenghuozhongshuodaorenjinruhunyinshenghuohou，nanrenhenvrenganshoudewanquanshilingyizhongjingxiang，zuofan、xiyifang、maicai、daihaizi。zheiyiqieshijidebunengzaishijideneirongchongchizhemeishimeike，shenzhimeiyigeshunjian。aiqingxihuanqieqiesiyu，xiangaizhedeyuyanshicongcidianliyibianbiandeshaixuanchulaizuinengdadongrenxindecihui，meiyijudoushanzheguangze，daizhetianwei。erhunyinbujiangjiuzheixie。hunyinzongshuotaiduodashihua，jieguoshuodenanrenhenvrendoushishiqulexiangxiangli。

六、婚姻只有一个去处那就是家

 aiqingxihuanbianhuanchangjing，huohuaqianyuexia，huotingbozaixinlixiangxiangdehaibianheyuzhourenheyigedifang。erhunyinquezhiyouyigequchu，haiyouyigeyongjihuobuyongjidejia。buguannanrenhenvrenyuanyiyubuyuanyi，tiantiandoudezoujinqu。yinaiqingerzoujinhunyindeannanrenhenvrenchangweizhongwenbudaoaiqinghuozhaobudaoxiangaishideganjueduihunyinchuihuzidengyan，zaishuohunyindehuaihua。yinmingyunanpaizoujinhunyindenanrenhenvrenchangyinxiangxiangyongyouyifenxiangxiangdeaiqingergenhunyinnaobieniu。