对待婚姻危机的6个方法

婚外恋这种婚姻危机就像是一个永远说不完的话题，很多人在婚姻遇到危机的时候都不懂得怎么做，不懂去 婚姻危机心态咨询或者婚姻问题咨询，最后离婚结束。其实处理的方法有很多，请看下面。

一、冷静分析

 ruguoyifangyoulewaiyu，womennanmianhuigandaotianxuandizhuanheganchangcunduanhuozhebaotiaorulei。renmenzuirongyisangshilizhiganchulumangdeshi，zhengquedezuofashiyinggaixianlengjingfenxiyixiashiqingdeyuanwei：daodishiruhefashengde？tamendeguanxidaoleruhedechengdu？zijidefanyingyouzhuyujiejuewentima？

二、不要以牙还牙

 youderenfaxianairenyoulewaiyu，zijiyequxunzhaohunwaiqinglaibaofuduifang。zheishichuliwentizuiyuchundexingwei。shiqingzhihuibiandegengzaogaogengfuza，zaiyixiehunyinweijixintaizixunlejiedaoyiyahaiyabujinbunengjiejueliangrendewentihaihuijiajumaodundeehua。erqiezijibenshendeyuanpeiliyiyehuixiaoshi（shanyangfei）zijisunshicanzhonghaihuiyixiaodafang（youqishinvxing）。

三、过激的行为

 zaiairenyudaowaiyushiwomenxuehuishidangdekongzhizijixingwei，buyaoyikuernaosanshangdiaode，ruguotabuaini，nizaizenmenaodouyushiwubu。zuozheixiebujinmeiyoushijixiaoguo，haihuishanghaizijideshenti。

四、宽容

 womenyaoxuehuikuanrongheyituiweijin，jinguanzhangwolezhengjuyebuyaoyiweijinbi，beiyishidaocuowudeairenyehuibuyanqifan，gancuiyibuzuoerbuxiu，chediyunijuelie。zaizheishi，womenyinggaibaichukuanrongdetaidu，zebijiaonengshiairenyoukuijiugan，burenxinzaishanghaini，ranhouliangrenzaizhaoyigehelidefangshibazijishoushanghaideweiqudeyixuanxie。

五、注意孩子

 buyaobahaizidangzuochouma，haizishiwugude。gengbuyaotingquhaizideyijian，bahaizilalachechedangzuotanpandechouma。keshiwomenquejingchangfanzheiyangdecuowu，liyongwuzhilaishoumaihaizixiwanghaizizhanzaizijizheibian。yaobujiugaosuhaizizhenxiang，ranghaizihezijiyiqilaizenghenbeipanzhe。zheiyangzhihuishihaizixuehuiyaoxiedarenqudewuzhiliyidetujing。zaochenghaizidekunhuo、zibeihebuliangxintai，huohaiwuqiong。

六、认清事实

 ruguoyijingjinliquwanhuibeipanzhehaishilvjiaobugai、shiyuanpeikuanrongweiwuneng，zeyuanpeiyaoqingchuderenqingshishi，danglizeli。zaijingjiyuwuzhishenghuobuyilaizhangfudezhunbei ，jinkenengjianshaowuzhishenghuoyujingshenshenghuodelikaierzaochengyanzhongshanghai。