婚姻家庭指导：婚姻出现问题怎么吧？

 kanguoyixiehunyinjiatingxiaoshuoderendouzhidao，henduorenzaichuxianhunyinwentideshihoudoubuzhidaoruhechuli。hunyinfalvyishiboruo，qiebudongdequhunyinjiatingfalvzixun，neigaizenmebanni？

hunyinjiatingzhidao：hunyinchuxianwentizenmeba？

一、把问题的矛盾拿出来双方沟通

 womenshuotianxiameiyouyongliyuaijiejuebuledewenti。jiranchuxianlewenti，buguanshishenmeyangdemaodun。womendajiashuangfangbawentibaichulai，yigeyigedejiejue，zanshijiejuebulede，yihouzailaidasuan，banengjiejuedexianjiejuediao，zheiyangshuangfangdeganqingdouhaizai，yebuzhiyuhuizoudaolihunzheigedibu。

二、总要有一方稍稍做出让步

 fuqizhijiandezhengchaoduiyuxianzaidejiatinglaishuo，yeshihenchangjiande。zhibuguoshimeigerendechulifangshibuyiyang。youderenyongzhengchaojiejuezhengchao，zhinengshishitaiwanggenghuaidefangmianfazhan。eryouderenyongzijideai，yongzijidebaorongxinlaijiejue，zheiyangbierenganshoudaonidechengyi，ziranjiuhuihehaoruchule。

hunyinjiatingzhidao：hunyinchuxianwentizenmeba？

三、给彼此一点空间一点时间

 buguanzenmeyang，dajiahaishifuqi，zhenyoujiejuebuledewentidaoleyaolihundejiezou。womenbufangjishuangfangyidiankongjian，yidianshijian，haohaodelengjingdexiangqingchu。shibushiyaojixuzaiyiqi，haishishuozhendebuxing，zhiyoufenkaicainengjiejuewenti。rangshijianzuodepanduanba！

四、如果不是特别严重，那就睁一只眼闭一只眼吧

 henduoqingkuangxia，wangwangyouhenduorenbashiqingyanzhonghuale。mingmingshimeiyouneimeyanzhongdeshi， jingguodiergehuozhegengduorenchuanyixia，rangyifangwuhuile，zheiyangjiuhuidaozhimaodundejifa。suoyiwomenduiyoudeshiqingkeyifangdejiufangxia，shizaifangbuxiadezaizhaobiedefangfajiejue。

hunyinjiatingzhidao：hunyinchuxianwentizenmeba？

五、给对方足够的尊重

 buguannimenxianzaidezhuangtaizenmeyang，shixinpingqihe，haishidachaodanao。henduohunyinjiatingxiaoshuoyetidaozheizhongqingjie，zhishiweilebushishiqinggengjiadeehuaxiaqu，zheihechangbushiwomendeshenghuoxiezhaoni。womenyaojiduifangzugoudezunzhong。buyaoyiweizheimendezhengchaohuiduiwentiqidaoshizhishangdebangzhu，qishizhiyouweilezheigejiakaolv，weilehaizikaolvcaishijiejuewentidebanfa。

六、如果真的没有办法继续那就离了吧

 yinweizhangtongburuduantong，youdeshihouwomenjuedezheigehunyinyijingmeiyoubanfaweichixiaqule，ruguozaijixusichengdehua，tongkudezhinengshishuangfang。erqiehaihuiyoukenengchanshenggengjiadademaodun。jirandajialinianbuhe，haishifenkaiweiyi，zheiyangzhishaobuhuixiangyiqianneimetongkuwanfen。fenkaiyeyaozhuyi，henduowentidouyaochulihao，jianyiquzuohunyinjiatingfalvzixunyixiewenti，biruxiangcaichanfengedengdengwenti。