yaoshuodaojiatinglengbaolidehua,zaizheigeshehuizhonghaishitingpubiande,henduojiatinghuoqinghuozhongdoucunzailengbaoli,neiyudaolengbaolihunyin,womengaizenmebanni?
一、真实面对自己
zouchujiatinglengbaolidediyibushizhenshikandaiziji,hunyinshigejiaohushiguanxi,lianggerendegongtongzuoyongcainengyongyouqinglangdetiankong,bingbushinizuodaowenrouxianshu,detidafang,shiyejiatingliangshouzhualeyihou,laogongjiuhuirenkeni,jiatingcaihuimeiman,niyaoqingchu,zheibingbushinidecuo,zhenshidenishishenmeyangzi,nidejiazhiganhechengjiuganyinggaituolizheiduanguanxidejiban,wanquanyounizijijueding。qishiyoushihou,zaipinfandezhengzhiguohou,tabingbushibuainile,ershibennengdexuanzelechenmolaibaohutaziji。
二、理性分析冷暴力的产生缘由
hunyinzhongchuxianlengbaoli,henduoshihoushiyouneiwaishuangzhongzuoyongzaochengde。jiyouzhangfudezeren,neimeyeyouqizidezeren。zuoweinvrenlaishuo,shouxianyaoxuehuicongzishenchazhaoyuanyinzaina。youkenengshinipingshiduizhangfudeguanxinbugou,youhuozheshiwuyizhongzuoleshanghaizhangfudeshiqing。cishi,nikeyifanshengxiazijipingrilideyanxing。
三、控制自己的情绪
keshigaishanjiatingdelengbaolihunyinbushiyichaoyixideshiqing,xuyaowomenyongyouqiangdadeneixin,ruguowomenyizhibeiduifangqianzhezou,jiuhuishiqulezhishengdejihui。youhenduojinglijiatinglengbaolidenvrenshuoyiqianzijihenhuopode,jianghuayehenyoumo,pengyoumendoushuowoyouqu,keshixianzaiwohaoxiangbianchenglelingwaiyigeren,yidiandoubuzixin,juedezijimeiyong,shenmeshidouzuobuhao,changchangyuyuguahuan,zheishidianxingdeyinweizhangqihuozailengbaolideyinyingxia,chanshengdefumiantongkuqingxu。womenyaoxuehuihetongkuqingxugongchu,jianchizuoyizhongyundong,jianchigongzuo,duohepengyouzaiyiqi,faxianshenghuozhongdelequ,yigekuailederenyinggaishiyikaozijiqukuailede,nixianchengweiwennuandexiaotaiyangcaixing,manmandelingyibanyehuibeiniganrande。
四、适当示弱
youshixuehuishiruozhengshijiejuewentidetupokou,chufeishirenpintaichabenxingbushanliangderen,yibanlaishuo,mianduinvrendeshiruo,nanrenjibianyingchengzhesiyaomianzi,yechengbuletaijiu。dangrannibunengrangtagandaonideshiruoshikeyide,shiruobudengyushizhuangkelian。yaoxixin,yegengyaoyounaixin,duojiyixieshijianba,buyaozongxiangzhelimahuifudaonixiangyaodeshenghuozhuangtai。
五、学会表达真实的需求
nvxingshiganxingdongwu,zaiqinmiguanxizhongjiurongyijintianxuyaozheige,mingtianxuyaodeshiwanquanxiangfandedongxi,suoyibiaodazhenshideyizhixingxuqiuyeshibiyaode,meidangwomengenbanlvbiaodashi,xiwangwomenshirenzhensikaoguode,lengjingxialaichendianguohouzijidexuqiu,erbushiyishichongdongdexuqiu。biaodaxuqiushichenshunidexuyao,xiwangdedaoduifangdebangzhu,huozhelijie、zhichi,erbushibiaodaduifangxuyaozenmezuo,huozhezhijiepingpanduifangdesuozuosuowei,zhichuduifangdecuowu,biaodaxuqiubingbushiwomenyonglaibiduifangrencuodewuqi,ershizhenshidebiaodawodexuyao、wodeqinggan,bangzhuwomendeguanxigenghaodeqianjin。
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