如何理解恋爱与婚姻？

 henduolianaihunyinjiatingzaihunyinshenghuozhongfaxian，yuanlaijiehunhoujiumeiyoulelianaineishideganjuele，jiujinggaizenyangqulijielianaiyuhunyinni？

一、婚姻并不能给爱情的交代

 youtaiduoxiangaideren，zongshikewangtianzhangdijiushishikekedexiangban，kewangririyeyedexiangpei，zongjuedeqianshouhouzoujinhunyin，caishijiaiqingyigedejiaodai。qishinicuole，youduoshaoxiangqinxiangaidehunyin，yuaiqingwuguan，youduoshaokegumingxindeaiqing，quebushejihunyin,lianaiyuhunyinhaishiyouhenduobutongdedifang。

二、婚姻不是爱情唯一的结局

 aiqingyoutaiduozhongxingshi，youxieaiqing，kenengyibeizimeiyouyongbaoguoyici，quenengzaibicidexinlishenshendiqiangua，shenshendiannian，xianghushenaizheyibeizi。youxieaiqing，xuyaozangzaixinliyibeizi，yongyuanbuhuihehunyincheshangrenheguanxi，hunyin，bingbushiaiqingweiyidejieju。

三、婚姻并不全是爱情美好的延续

 shenaiyigeren，zonghuixiang，ruguowozaitashenbian，wohuijitazuimeideaiqing，dezhaogu，tayehuigengjiayongxindeaiwo，jiwozuiduodechongai。keshiyidanjinruhunyin，youtaiduotaiduodeshexiangjiangbiandemianmuquanfei，nihuifaxian，yidanjinruhunyin，cengjingdeneixieshexiangbianchenglesheqiu，shenzhicengjingdemeihaoyexiaoshibujian。shuo“hunyinjiushiaiqingdefenmu”，dadishimeiyoulingwudaojingyinghunyindejiqiao，zaihunyinshenghuozhongzaoyulewentimeiyouhenhaodeshudaojiejue。

四、婚姻不是爱情的坟墓

 youhenduonianqingren，huiyouhunyinkongjuzheng，yinweihaipajinrulianaihunyinjiatingdeshenghuo，paaiqingbianchengemeng，yushiyizhizaibuanzhongjingyingaiqing，quecongbutijihunyin，yushiyiduanyouyiduandeaiqingchengweilecengjing，yushidahaodeqingchunbianjiuzaijiujiezhongguoqule。hunyinguranmeiyouaiqingdeneibandanchun，quenengjirenyianwen，tebieshiyigenvren，hunyin，caikeyijinvrenyigewanzhengderensheng。

五、婚姻不是爱情的保证

 tingguozheiyangyijuhua，kuaijiehun，jiehunhoutajiushouxinle。dudujuedeshenshihaoxiao。yigehunqiandoubuzhidaozhongchengderen，ruhenengrangyizhihunyinkunbangzhuzijifangzongdelinghun？youyouneimeduodenannannvnv，weilebiaoshizijidezhenxin，buguyiqiedeshanhun、luohun，zhishidaolezuihou，hunyinbushiaiqingdebaozheng，ershichenglejieshuaiqingdekuaizishou。