婚姻男女不宜做的7件事

 yiqiankanguohunyinneixieshizheiyizongyijiemu，zhangwodaoyuanxianhunyinshenghuoyouneimaduofanghuodeliuyidediqu，ruguoshuhudayihunyinshenghuobianxianrujuejingle。xiabianshiyiyihuimianfeizaixianzixungongsizhongzixundaodehunyinshenghuonanrennvrenbushihezuode7jianshi，xiangzhangwodenenggoukanyixia。

一、不适合以自身的生活方式主导

 hunhou，fufubicidoushiyoumouxieexipuluchuqu：xiangmeibaiyagaojidewaiwaixiexie，chuangqianyouluhui，luanrengzangmianwazheixienanti。zhenduizheizhong，bicibixujinkenengxuehaorenshouheguanzhe，wuxuyixinzhizelingyifang。tebieshizaishizuolaopode，weibifeidelaogongzhaozishendefangfalaizuo，tishitadaoshihouliuyikeyile。

二、不适合回家了撒气

 fufubicidoububibazaiwaibiandehenmanqingxuxuanxiedaojiali，youyunaopiqideyuanyinhuizaochengquanjiarenbukaixin。zheibingfeishuodajiazaiwaibianzaoshoubiequbixumanzheqinren，zhishiyingdangzhao1geshihedeshijian，zaibaxinzhongdefanmenxianglingyifangqingsuchuqu。bulunshilaogonghuanshilaopo，zheishidouyingdangyiwenroudexintaijilihuoguiquanlingyifangcaidui，xiezhulingyifangjinzaoqingchuxinlideshenmefanmen。yingdangjianxin，zainandeshieryehuisuizhishijiandebianhuaeryiwangde。

三、不适合在金钱问题上“一言堂”

 zenyangtaoqianbingfeiyijianshi，youxuduofuqijiushiyouyuqiancaierbuhe。dajiazaihunqiantaoqianjichushizishenlaiding，bianpeiyangle“ziliziqiang”dexiguanxing。hunhoukehaiyaoliuyile，yaoyoujiazhongdeyishi，jishitaoqianyaoxianghushangyi，kexueanpai。zaijiazhongjingjifazhanbiaozhunbingbushifuyushi，wojuedefuqibicidouxuyouzikongnengli，bubishanzuozhuzhangluanmaihuo。

四、宜应对以往老想“或许……”

 fuqijianyongyouliefeng，qiewuzainaozhongyizhixiang“huoxu”erzi：“huoxuwoyulingyirenwanhunhuibiheta/taxingfukuailexie”、“huoxuwobuxiangjiehunfandaogengqiang”、“huoxurenmen……”。zheizhong“huoxu”quanshixiaochendeniantou，wojuedeyuewangzheixingxiang，shierhuiyuezao。fufuliangliyingduozhuiyijiaowangshidexingfukuailemeihaoshiguang，zhinengneiyang，nenggoushirendaobujingyijianzhongkaixinqilai。shuo“hunyinshenghuojiushishuoganqingdemuzang”，daduoshushimeiyouganwudaojingyinghunyindefangfa，zaihunhoushenghuozhongzaoshoulenantimeiyoufeichanghaodeshutongchuli。

五、不适合无端迟归或外宿

 dangjinxuduojiazhongquanshigongxinjieceng，zaihunyinneixieshiyeshifanying，jingchangzhinengzaigonggongjinwucanshinenggoucouzaiyiqi。jiaolvbuandegongzuozhongheshenghuodejiezoushifufugoutongjiaoliuqinggandeshijianbenyifeichangshao，jiarulingyifangzaiwuduanerchiguinaizhihuwaisu，jiugenghuijilingyifangxintaizhuangtaishangzengjiatongkuhekunao。neiyangzhangciyiwang，fuqijiandeqingganjiuhuibiancheng“wubenzhimu”，feichangrongyibianku。

六、不适合在儿女眼前相互之间“揭短”

 zheizhongzuofahuibijiaoyanzhongyanlidajilingyifangdexurongxinde。tangruoshijianzhangle，fufubicideqingganjiuhuipinweibenkui。gengbijiaoyanzhongdeshi，ernvyehuiyinererqiaobuqizishendebabamama，yizhishijiazhongxintaishangchanshengwajie。

七、不适合互相无故猜忌

 jiarushuoxinlaishihunyinshenghuonannvpengyouganqingdejiben，neimacaijijiushishuoqinggandezhumuchong。jiaruyinlaogonghuolaopoyuyixingpengyouchupengerwuguqiyixin，naizhifazhanqushidaojiankonglingyifangdezuofa，wojuededuifuqiguanxijiatinggongzuopingwenquanshiyoubaihaierwuyilide。