如何理解恋爱与婚姻？

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一、婚姻生活并不可以给感情是的交待

 youguoduoxiangaideren，yizhiqipandijiutianzhangmeishimeikedexiangsui，qipanduridexiangpei，zongganjueshizhijinkouhouzouruhunyinshenghuo，suanshijiganqing1geshidejiaodai。wojuedenibudui，youshiduoshaoxiangqinxiangyuandehunyinshenghuo，yuaiqingwuguan，youshiduoshaokegumingxindeaiqing，quebushejidaohunyinshenghuo,lianaiyuhunyinhuanshiyouxuduobuyiyangdediqu。

二、婚姻生活并不是感情惟一的下场

 ganqingyoutaixingshiduoyang，yixieganqing，jianghuiyishengmeiyouxiangyongguoyihui，quenengzaixianghudeneixinshenshenguanian，shenshendiguanian，huxiangaizheyisheng。yixieganqing，bixuzangxinliyisheng，zhongjiuburongyihehunyinshenghuocheshangyiqieguanlian，hunyinshenghuo，bingfeiganqingweiyidexiachang。

三、婚姻生活并 不都是感情幸福的持续

 shenxihuanyigeren，douhuixiang，jiaruzaitashenpang，wonengjitamenmeilideganqing，shidezhaoliao，tayehuigengweirenzhendeshuoaiwo，bangwoshuzuiduodechongni。danshiruguojindaohunyinshenghuo，youfeichangduodegouxiangjiangyuelaiyuebiantilinshang，nijiuhuifaxian，ruguojindaohunyinshenghuo，yiqiandezheixiegouxiangbianweileshewang，naizhiyiqiandexingfuyexiaotuikanbudao。shuo“hunyinshenghuojiushishuoganqingdemuzang”，dadishimeiyouganwudaojingyinghunyindefangfa，zaihunhoushenghuozhongzaoshoulenantimeiyoufeichanghaodeshutongchuli。

四、婚姻生活并不是感情的墓葬

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五、婚姻生活并不是感情的确保

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