再婚怎么挽回婚姻关系

　　zaihunzenmewanhuihunyinguanxihunyinshenghuomingrujing，yidanpolie，xiububixudebujinjinshikuijiu，gengjiashiguoyingdexingwei。dangnanrenchuguihou，laopoderenkerutongbeisipodezhitiao，wufapincou。zheishi，kongdongdechengnuohefanfudi“zhendeduibuqi”zhihuirangduifanggengweixinhan。zhiyouyongkehengliang、kechixuxing、yanzhengxingdongzhijiezhengju，caikeyiranglaopokanjiannidexinxinyugaibian。wenzhonghunyinzixunjigoujiangzai“gerenxingweijilu”“gongtongdemubiao”“disanfangyinzheng”sangeweidu，jinichaixiezenyangyongshijixingdongzhengshigenggai，jiakuaiwanliuguocheng。

　　yi、duandaofuwuchengnuoshixiao!xinlaibixushiyong“zhijiezhengju”fujian

　　nanrenchuguihou，laopozuichangtingdaodejingdiantaicishi：“duibuqi，woganbaozhengburongyizaicifasheng”“woyihouyidinghaohaoduini”。danshi，zheizhongyujuzaiposundexinlaiyanqiankanqilaibujinrenyi。xinliyanjiubiaoming，xinlaidefujianxuyaojingguo“caiyi-guancha-renzheng-jieshou”deyigeguocheng，erzheiyiguochengdeguanjianzaiyu“zhijiezhengju”——jilaopokeyitongguojutixingweikanjiannidegenggai，bingfeiyikaogerenganshou。

　　案例启示：

　　yiweiyiqianchuguidelaogongfenxiangletadeqinshenjingli：

　　“woyikaishibuduanzhiqian，naizhiguizaidishangkukuaiqiukuanrong，dantazhishichixiao：‘meicifancuowudoujuedegai，jieguo?’

　　houlaidewozhujianmeitianxie‘gerenxingweirizhi’，jiluzijizenyangjijigoutong、zenyangjujuesuoyouaimeijiyu，bingrangtasuishisuidichakan。

　　sangeyuehou，tazhongyuxiangyaozuoxiayuwotanxin。”

　　zheigelizijieluleyigezhenxiang：xinlaibingbushikaoshuochude，ershitongguo“kandedaodegenggai”leijichude。

　　er、xingweizhijiezhengju1：yong“gerenxingweijilu”lianghuafenxigenggai，qingchucaiji

　　“gerenxingweijilu”zhitongguoshiji、zhuishuodexingshi，zhanshinidegenggaiyundongguiji。tabujinnengbangzhulaopozhujianxuehuifangxiafangbei，yenengrangnizishentounaoqingxing，fangzhiyicuozaicuo。

　　1. richanggerenxingweitoumingdu

　　ziwoguanlijilu：jijixiangqizishangbaomeirixingchenganpai，youqishiyuyixingpengyouyouguandechangsuo(rugongzuozhongjiaoji)。keyishiyongfenxiangrili、weixindingweidakaqiandaodengxingshi，danxuzhuyi“shangbao≠jianguan”，mudeshiweileqingchuxinxibuduicheng。

　　tonghuajiluguidang：heqizidemeiyicishenduduihua(ruzhiqian、guihuarensheng)doukeyizhenglichulaiwenzihuoshipinyuyin，guidangbeifenshuju。zheibujinjinshiziwofanshengdeyizhongshouduan，hainengranglaopokanjiannidezhencheng。

　　2. jijiduankaiyinyouyuan

　　zaihunzenmewanhuihunyinguanxishejiaomeitijiexianzhonggou：shanchuhuopingbilesuoyoukenengyinfaaimeimubiao，qinglixitong、shejiaomeitishangdeminganneirong，haiyaoqinglaopojianguan。

　　zhengwugongkai：jiangchaodajinezhichumingxitongbujiairen，tebieshishejidaoxiuxianxiaofeideneiyibufen(rujiudiancanting、canguan)，yongquantouminghuijijiangdicaiyi。

　　3. buduanxuexiyufansi

　　qinggankechengdakaqiandao：baokaohunyinzixunkechenghuoxinlixuedeshudushujihua，meixingqixiangqizidijiaoxuexixinde。biru：“zheizhoubaidule《qinmiguanxi》，yishidaolecongqiandehulverangniganjuedaogudan，wodasuanmeigexingqifenpei2cishendujiaoliu。”

　　xintairiji：jilumeirideqingxubianhuajiqingxudiaojie，zhanshiniduiganqingwentiderenzhenfansi。

　　guanjianhuanjie：gerenxingweijiluwubichizhiyiheng(zuishao3geyue)，qiexufangzhi“yanchushigenggai”。laopobixukandaodejiushipingwen、chixubuduandexingwei，bingfeiyishidequyue。