花镇：真性分手如何挽回异地

　　yidilianshiyizhonggengteshudeaiqingxingshi，youyuquefamianduimiandejiaoliu，henrongyijilianggerendailaijuliganhefenligan，shenzhidaozhibicidepohuaiheshuyuan。dangfenshoudexiaoxichuanlaishi，zhenxingfenshouruhewanhuiyidi？xuduonvhaihuigandaotongku，danhuifudexiwangrengrancunzai。benwenjiangcongjigejiaodutaolunruhehuifushiwangdeyidiliannanyou。

　　一、确定失信原因

　　dangyidilianshiwangfenshoushi，xuduonvxinghuixianruzizeheyihan，renweitamenhushileaihuoduifangbugouaiziji。raner，zuihaodefangfashishouxianlejieshixindejutiyuanyin，wuluntamenshifouyouguocuo，haishishuangfangdouyounanyidiaohedewenti。zhiyoumingquedeyuanyin，cainengyouzhenduixingdijiejuezheigewenti。

　　二、保持联系方式多样化

　　zaiyidilianzhong，youyujuliyaoyuan，liangrenzhijiandezhangqigoutongbukebimiandihuigandaopibeihedandiao。yinci，baochiduoyanghuadelianxifangshiyouweizhongyao。kexingdefangshibaokuo：zaitongxinpingtaishangdebutongshijianliuyan；genjuqingkuangjinxingshishijiankonghuoyuyinliaotian；fenxiangganxingqudedianshijuhuoyinle，yizengjiajiaoliudezhutihelequ。

　　三、处理好时间和计划共同生活

　　yidiliandeshenghuohegongzuoshijianhuiyouyidingdechayi。ruguozheixiechayichulibudang，kenenghuidaozhixianghugoutonghegoutongdewucha。yinci，womenxuyaorenzhenzhidinggongtongdeshenghuojihua，zhenxingfenshouruhewanhuiyidi？zaigezideshijianlijinliangtitie、fuze、kuanrong，bangzhutamengenghaodilijiehejileiaiqing。

　　四、有效的沟通技巧

　　zaiyidilianzhong，youxiaodegoutongjiqiaoshiweichiganqingdeguanjian。dangchuxianfenqihuoqingxubuwendingshi，shuangfangxuyaoxuehuinaixinqingting、lijiehegoutong，yichuangzaoyigexianghuxinrenhezunzhongdeqingganjichu。zaishijigoutongguochengzhong，haiyingzhuyicuoci，fangzhiguoyuzhijiehuoguoyuxiaojidebiaodafangshi，bimianwujiehebubiyaodeshanghaizaochengaiqingshanghai。