花镇：分手之后如何挽回女友

　　yidilianshiyizhongteshudelianaifangshi。youyujuliheshijiandechayi，yidilianbixumianlingengduodetiaozhan。henduorenxuanzeyidilian，quebuzhidaoruhemianduifenshou，gengbuzhidaoruhewanhuiaiqing，youqishidangyidilianshiqunvyoudeshihou。zaibenwenzhong，womenjiangcongduogejiaodutantaoruhewanjiuyidiliannvyoudefenshouganqing。fenshouzhihouruhewanhuinvyou？

　　1.分手的原因

　　shouxian，womenxuyaozhidaofenshoudeyuanyin。yidilianfenshoudeyuanyinyouhenduo，baokuoshikongchaju、goutongbuchang、duiweilaidebuquedingxingdeng。ruguonizhidaofenshoudeyuanyin，nikeyiconggenbenshangjiejuewenti，yinghuininvpengyoudexin。

　　2.了解她的感受

　　nvpengyoufenshoushi，zuizhongyaodeshilejietadeganshou。ruguotarengranaini，takeyikaolvzhongxinkaishiyiduanguanxi。raner，ruguotayijingbaituolezheiduanguanxi，kenenghennanhuifu。yinci，womenxuyaolejietadeganshou，cainengzhidaoxiayibugaizenmeban。

　　3.改变自己

　　gaibianzijishizhengjiuyidiliannvyoudezhongyaoyibu。ruguonijuedenidenvpengyoubumanyi，jinkuaigaibian，rangzijichengweiyigegenghaoderen。nikeyixuexiyixiexinjineng，duyixiexinshu，rangzijigengyouquheyoujiazhi。

　　4.加强交流

　　zaiyidilianzhong，goutongfeichangzhongyao。yinci，ruguonixiangzhengjiufenshounvyoudexin，niyinggaijiaqianggoutong。nikeyitongguogezhongfangshilianxinidenvpengyou，birudadianhua、faduanxin、fenshouzhihouruhewanhuinvyou？shipintonghuadengdeng。zhiyaotazhidaonizaixiangta，tajiuhuiduiniyougenghaodeyinxiang。

　　5.给对方空间

　　zaiyidilianqijian，jiduifangkongjianyehenzhongyao。ruguoniyizhiduinvpengyouhenjin，huirangtajuedenihenfanren，zheihuijiasufenshoudejincheng。yinci，niyinggaijitazugoudeshijianhekongjianqusikaotadeganshouheweilai。