花镇：谈婚论嫁分手如何挽回

　　fenshoushiyijianfeichangtongkudeshiqing，tongchanghuidaozhifuqiwanquanpolie。raner，zaimouxieqingkuangxia，fenshoubingbuyidingyiweizheyongyuandefenli。youshi，renmenhuizaiyixiewuyizhongdezhengchaohuowujiezhongjiafenshou，bingyiwaidijinruyigelinshidefenqiqi。cishi，zhengquedefenxihechulifangfakeyibangzhunizhengjiunideairendexin。tanhunlunjiafenshouruhewanhui？

　　1，分析和理解冲突的原因

　　daduoshujiafenshouyoulianggezhuyaoyuanyin：yishifuqigoutongbuliang，ershifuqiqiwangbuyizhi。ruguonizhidaofenqidegenyuan，nikeyicaiqugenghaodefangfalaimianduita。liru，ruguofenqishiyinweinidexingweimaofanlenideairen，nikeyishizhedaoqian，shuomingnidemaofanconglaimeiyoueyiguo。ruguofenqishiyouyuquefagoutong，nikeyichangshitongguogenghaodegoutonglaijiejuewenti。yinci，duifenqidelijiehefenxiyouweizhongyao。

　　2、适当地向对方表达自己的情感

　　youshihou，zailianrenfenqideqingkuangxia，qingganbiaodashifeichangbiyaode。lengjingtanchengdibiaodaduibicideai，huirangduifangjuedenimeiyoufangqi，erzheizhongbiaodawangwangnengyingdeduifangdexinrenhezhichi。birunikeyishuo:“wozhidaowomenzhijianfashengleshenme，danwozhendehenzaihuni。wobuxiangjieshuwomendeguanxi，woxiangnulijiejuewenti。”zheixiezhenchengjiandandehuayukeyidadongduifangdexin，rangduifangyishidaonidezhenchenghenuli。

　　3、给对方一些时间理智

　　ruguonizailianrenfenqideqingkuangxiabaochilixing，zhidingzhengquedefangshi，danduifangrengranqingxujidong，nikeyishizhejiduifangyixieshijianlixing。nikeyizantinglianrenzhijiandelianxiyiduanshijian，zheiyangkeyibangzhushuangfanglengjingchulizijidewenti，jianqingxinqing。zheiduanshijiankeyirangnimendeguanxigengjialixing，rangmeigerendounenggengjialixingdimianduiwenti，zuizhongwanjiunimendeguanxi。tanhunlunjiafenshouruhewanhui？

　　4、多沟通，增进相互了解，增进相互了解

　　goutongshiweichilianrenguanxideguanjianyinsu。ruguonizailianrenbutongdeqingkuangxiabaochigoutong，nikeyibangzhuduifanggenghaodilijienideganshouhexiangfa。tongshi，tayekeyirangnigenghaodilejienideairen，ranhougenghaodishiyinghezhaoguyonghudexuqiu。duogoutong，zengjinxianghulejie，rangshuangfangxianghuxinrenhezunzhong，zuizhongbangzhudajiawanjiuguanxi。