花镇：情人要分手如何挽回

　　yidilianshidangjinnianqingrenganqingdeyizhongxingshi。suiranyouxierenduizheizhongleixingdeaiqingfeichangbeiguan，danyouxierenrengranyigengjijidetaiduduidaita。raner，yidilianrengranmianlinzhegezhonggeyangdekunnan，rushijianhekongjiandexianzhi、goutongzhangaihehuaiyidezengjia。gezhongyinsushenzhikenengdaozhiyidilianfenshou，neimeruguoyidilianshiwangfenshou，ruhezhengjiuduifangni？qingrenyaofenshouruhewanhui？

　　首先，了解失望的原因

　　zaiyidilianzhong，ruguofenshou，tongchanghuiyoushiwang。shiwangdeyuanyinkenengyouhenduo，biruquefagoutong、moshenggan、wufashenghuozaiyiqidengdeng。zaizhengjiuduifangzhiqian，womenxuyaoshenrulejieshiwangdejutiyuanyin，yibiangenghaodijiejuewenti。

　　二、恢复沟通

　　huifushuangfangdegoutongshijiejueyidilianshiwangfenshoudeguanjian。womenkeyichangshishiyonggezhonggoutongfangshi，rushipintonghua、duanxin、youjianhegezhongshejiaomeitiqudao。ciwai，womenkeyidingqizhidingxianghudejihuahemubiao，rangbiciganshoudaogengduodelianxihegongtongdeshenghuomubiao。

　　三、知道什么时候放手

　　youshi，zaichangshilegezhongfangshiheshenrugoutonghou，qingkuangrengranwufahuanjie。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，nikenengyinggaikaolvfangshou。wulunniduomexiangzhengjiuduifang，nidouxuyaoyishidaozhongjianguanxikenengshibukenengde。qingrenyaofenshouruhewanhui？xuehuifangshouyeshiyigechengshudebiaozhi。

　　四、改变自己

　　yigerenhennangaibianziji，danruguotanengrangzijibiandegenghao，neimetakenenghuipingjingdimianduizhangtuguanxidetiaozhan。zaixunzhaohuifufangfashi，womenyeyinggaizhuyizijidewenti，lejiezijimianlindekunnan，ranhougenghaodichulizhangtuguanxishiwangdefenshoukunjing。