花镇：提出分手后如何挽回

　　niyongyuanbuhuiwangjinideqianren，xiangshizhehuifu，dannibuquedingshenmeshihoucaiquxingdong？fenshouhoudezuijiahuifushijianshishenmeshihou？zheigewentimeiyougudingdedaan，yinweimeigerendeqingkuangdoubutong，danxiamiancongbutongdejiaoduweinintigongleyixiecankao。tichufenshouhouruhewanhui？

　　1.考虑到时间长度

　　fenshouhouzuihaodehuifushijianyinggaishifenshouhoubujiu，tongchangzailiangzhounei。cishi，shuangfangdeqingxuhaimeiyouwanquanlengque，kenenghaiyouyixiehuaijiudeqingxu，suoyihuifudejihuihenda。raner，zaizheigeshihou，huifuyeyinggaizhuyiyixiexijie，birubuyaoxiandetaikewang，yebuyaomangmudidaoqian，zaixingdongqianzuohaogefangmiandezhunbei。

　　2.考虑到双方的情绪状况

　　huifushijianyexuyaogenjushuangfangdeqingxuzhuangkuangjinxingjutifenxi。ruguofenshoushiyouyuzhengchaohefenqi，neimenikeyijishuangfangyixieshijianlengjingsikao，zhongxinshenshibicidewenti，ranhoucaiquxingdongkenenggengyouxiao。ruguoaibeixishi，neimezaiduanshijianneihuifukenenggengkunnan，nixuyaoshidangdifangsongxintai，zuoziji，rangqianrenzaipengyouhuoshuxideshejiaochanghezhongxinrenshiziji，kenenghuimanmanchanshengyizhongxindeganjue。

　　3.考虑到双方的生活状况

　　ruguonideqianrenzhengmianlinzhongdadeshenghuoshijian，rutiaocao、banjiadeng，neimebuyaoguozaodiyingxiangtamendeshenghuo。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，nixuyaojiduifangzugoudekongjian，dengdaizhengquedeshijiancaiquxingdong；tichufenshouhouruhewanhui？xiangfan，ruguoshuangfangdeshenghuofangshixiangduipingjing，nikeyizhaodaoheshidejihuiyuduifangyuehui，zhongxinjianliqingganlianxi。

　　4.考虑到分手的原因

　　fenshoudeyuanyinyeshixuanzehuifushijiandezhongyaoyiju。liru，ruguoyinweixiaoshizhengchaoerfenshou，neimenikeyijinkuaiyuduifangqudelianxi，jianliyizuoqingganqiaoliang，rangbicizaixinliyouyidingdeyilai。ruguoyinweiqingganqipianhuobeipan，neimejianyifangshou，kaolvfenshoudeyuanyinshifoubukediaohe，shidufangxiabicideqingxu，xiangqiankan。