花镇情感：如何挽回真性分手

　　qingxuwentishirichangshenghuozhongdewentizhiyi。raner，dangnidenanpengyouxianghenifenshoushi，zheizhongwentibiandegengjiayanzhonghefuza。nideganqingheshenghuodouhuishoudaoyingxiang，suoyinixuyaocaiquxingdonglaizhengjiunidenanpengyou。ruhewanhuizhenxingfenshou？

　　1.确定分手的原因，寻找改进

　　lejieninanpengyoufenshoudeyuanyinshiyigezhongyaodediyibu。zheikenengshiyinweinimenzhijiandezhengchao、goutong、buxinren、shijianguanlihuoqitashiqing。tongguolijieyuanyin，nikeyigengrongyidixiangdaojiejuewentidefangfa。niyinggaizuoxialaitantan，chengshidijiaoliubicidejingli，taolunruhejiejuewenti。

　　2.给对方空间，冷静思考

　　fenshoubushiyigejiandandejueding，yexunixuyaojiduifangyixielengjingsikaodekongjian。zheijilerenmenshijiansikaoshifouhaixiangzaiyiqi，yijiruherangguanxigengjiankang。danshi，niyeyinggaiquebaobuyaorangzijiwanquanxiaoshi，baochiyouhao。nikeyijitaxieyifengduanxinhuoduanxin，gaosutanideganshou，danbuyaotaiyilaitadefanying。

　　3.诚实地向他展示你的变化

　　zaiguoqu，ninanpengyoudemouxiefangmiankenengyouwenti。shishihougaibianzheixiewentile。zaizheigeguochengzhong，nixuyaochengshidixiangtazhanshinidejinbuhenuli。wulunshizaigongzuo、xuexihaishishenghuozhong，ruhewanhuizhenxingfenshou？tadouxiwangkandaonizaijinbu。ruguonibiandegengjiazixinhechengshu，tahenkenenghuizixikaolvhenideguanxi。

　　4.合理地表达你的感受

　　youshihou，dangwomenchuyuqingxujidongdezhuangtaishi，womenhuishuoyixiebeishanghuofanrendehua。ruguonixiangjiunidenanpengyou，niyinggaibiaoxianchuchengshuhelijie。yinci，ruguoniyourenheganjue，yidingyaoyishidangdefangshibiaodachulai。erqie，nibuyinggaidaoqian，rangninanpengyoujuedetashiduide。