男朋友说分手如何挽回他

　　dangnanpengyoutichufenshoushi，nvhaidexinyidinghentongku。danshi，ruguonirengranaita，neimenibixujiuta。zheibingbushishuonibixuditouchengrennidecuowu，ershicongduogejiaodulaifenxi，zhaochuwenti，ranhoucaiquxiangyingdecuoshi。nanpengyoushuofenshouruhewanhui？

　　1、寻找问题所在

　　zaijiunanpengyouzhiqian，shouxianyaokaolvfenshoudeyuanyin，zhaochuwenti。nimenzhijiandegoutongyouwentima？haishinidexinggebuheshi？haishiyinweimeigerendeshenghuofangshihexiangfadoubuyiyang？zhiyouzhaodaowentidegenyuan，cainengyouzhenduixingdijiejuewenti。

　　2、改变自己

　　fenshoudeyuanyinhenkenengshiyinweinihuonizhijiandewenti，suoyigaibianzijishifeichangzhongyaode。nikeyicongnidesixiang、xingge、xiguandengfangmianrushou，birugaishannidexintai，xuehuikuanronghelijie，tigaonidexiuyanghesuyang，gaibiannideshenghuoxiguan。

　　3，再次取得联系

　　fenshouhou，nixuyaozhongxinlianxita，rangtazhidaonirengranguanxinta，bingyuanyijixuhetazaiyiqi。raner，buyaomangmudidadianhua、faduanxinhuochuxianzaitamianqian，zheihuirangtagandaoyalihebushi。nikeyixuanzeheshideshijianhefangshi，birufayifengzhenchengdexin，huozherangtachuquliaotian。

　　4、用心沟通

　　goutongshihuifuganqingdeguanjian。nanpengyoushuofenshouruhewanhui？womenyinggaiqingtingduifangdexiangfaheyijian，lejieduifangdelichanghexuqiu，biaodazijideganshouhexiangfa。zaigoutongzhong，yaochengshi、zhencheng、naixin，buyaojiyuzhenglunhepipingduifang。

　　5、重建信任

　　fenshouhou，xinrentongchanghuishoudaosunhai。zhongjianxinrenxuyaoshijianhenuli，danyexuyaoyixiejutidexingdong。liru，nikeyixiangtadaoqian，biaodanideyihanheneijiu，bingchengnuobuzaifantongyangdecuowu。tongshi，niyexuyaoxiangxinta，jitazugoudekongjianhezunzhong。