花镇：和男人分手了如何挽回

　　yidilianbiputonglianaigengnan。ruguonifenshoule，neijiugengtongkule。raner，ruguonihaixiangjiunidenvpengyou，nuligongzuoyebushimeiyouyongde。xiamiancongduogejiaodulaifenxi，bangzhunizhaodaoyixiekenengyouxiaodefangfa。henanrenfenshouleruhewanhui？

　　首先，找出分手的原因

　　ruguonixiangjiunidenvpengyou，nibixushouxianzhaochufenshoudeyuanyin。yexushiyinweinimenzhijiandejulitaiyuan，huozheshiyinweinimenzhijiandegoutongyouwenti。zheiyekenengshiyinweinimenzhijiandejiazhiguanhexingqubutong。zaixunzhaoyuanyindeguochengzhong，lengjingkeguan，buyaobasuoyoudezerendouguiyinyuduifang，fansizijidewenti。

　　二、重建联系

　　yidilianxuyaogezhongshejiaoruanjiandezhichi。danxuduogoutonggongjubingbuyiweizhenikeyigengjiejinnidenvpengyou。ruguonizaizhengchangdegoutongzhongyouwenti，niyinggaikaolvruhediaozhenghegaijinta。nikeyichangshigaibianyizhongxindegoutongfangshi，birucongfasongduanxindaodadianhua，yunvpengyoufenxianggengduodeshenghuo，bingjiangtarongruqizhong。

　　三、用真心和关心打动她

　　weilezhengjiunidenvpengyou，nixuyaogengzixididuidainideguanxi。lejiegengduoguanyutadeshenghuoxiguanheaihao，bingjitawenhouhezhufu。dangtajuedeniduitadeguanzhuheaibingmeiyoujianshaoshi，bujianmiandejulijiuhuizhujianxiaoshi。

　　四、应用付诸行动

　　shuoqilairongyizuoqilainan。ruguonixiangrangnidenvpengyouhuidaonishenbian，nibixufuzhushijian。nikeyixuanzejitasongliwu，huozhejitaxiefengxin，huozhezhijiequkanta。dangran，ruguotayouyidingdedichugan，henanrenfenshouleruhewanhui？buyaocaiqutaiqiangzhidexingdong，yaotitiezijidexiangfaheganshou。

　　五、拓宽自己的兴趣和技能爱好

　　yongyouguangfandeaihaohejinengbujinnengrangnigengshiyingyidiliandeshenghuoxiguan，hainengrangnigengyouqu、gengyouxiyinli。dangnibiandegengyouxiyinlishi，nidenvpengyouhuizaiciduiniganxingqu。