花镇：吵架老提分手如何挽回

　　hunwaiqingshiyizhongjiqitongkudejingli，wulunnishinanrenhaishinvren，nidouhuigandaozhenjinghexintong。ruguonishiyigenvren，nikenengyijingshituyongyiqiefangfalaihuifuniheyigenanrenzhijiandeguanxi，danxianzai，nifaxiantacongxianzaikaishihulveleni，wulunniruhelianxita，tadouhulveleni。nishituxiangtajieshiyiqie，dantasihuduinishuodehuabuganxingqu。chaojialaotifenshouruhewanhui？neime，dangnichuyuzheizhongqingkuangshi，nigaizenmebanni？

　　1.给他空间

　　shouxian，nixuyaojitayigekongjian。nidenanpengyoukenenghuigandaokunrao，jiuxiangniyiyang，takenengxuyaoshijianlengjingsikao，zhongxinpinggunideguanxi。nibuxiangzaizheigeshihoudaraota，nizhihuirangtagengshuyuanni。

　　2.试着和他说话

　　dangniquexintayijingjuedinghenifenshoushi，nixuyaoshizhehetashuohua。shouxian，nixuyaozhaodaoheshideshijianhedidian。nikeyirangtazaiyigeanjingdedifang，birukafeiguanhuogongyuan。ranhou，nixuyaozhuyinideyuqihefangshi。nikenengxiangdahandajiaohuobaoyuanta，danzheijueduibushinixiangyaodejieguo。xiangfan，nixuyaolixing，zuochuzijideguandian。nikeyiduitashuo，nizhenxinideguanxi，nibuxiangzheiyangjieshuyiqie。danyucitongshi，niyeyinggaizunzhongtadeyiyuan。jishitabuxianghuidaonidejiuguanxi，niyeyinggaijieshoutadejueding。

　　3.改变自己

　　zaishituhuifuguanxideguochengzhong，nikeyikaolvgaibiannidexiguanhexingwei。zheibingbushishuonixuyaoxishengnidegexinglaiquyueta，ershishuonikeyichangshiyixiexinshiwulaibiaodaniduitadeguanzhuhezunzhong。zheijiangshirenmenzaiweilaigengjiahexiehelijie。

　　4.尊重他的决定

　　zaizheigeguochengzhong，nixuyaozunzhongtadejueding。ruguotayijingjuedingjieshunimendeguanxi，neimenixuyaozunzhongta。nikeyishuochunidexin，danyeyaokaolvtadeganshou。ruguoniqiangpotahuidaonishenbian，chaojialaotifenshouruhewanhui？nizhihuirangtashuyuanni。