花镇：分手排斥期如何挽回

　　fenshoushiyijianfeichangtongkudeshiqing，duiyixierenlaishuo，fenshoujinianhou，rengranhennanfangxiaduifang。zaizheigeshihou，tamenxianghuxiangzhengjiu，zhongxinzaiyiqi。raner，shiqingbingbushineimejiandan，yixiashicongduogejiaodulaifenxizheigewenti。fenshoupaichiqiruhewanhui？

　　1.思念和习惯

　　fenshoujinianhou，rengranbunengfangxiaduifang，genbenyuanyinshiduifangyijingchengweitamenshenghuodeyibufen。zaixiangchulehenzhangyiduanshijianhou，tamenxiguanlebicidecunzai，suoyijishitamenfenshoulehenduonian，tamenrengranbunengwangjibicicengjingzaiyiqidediandiandidi。sinianyeshiyigefeichangzhongyaodeyinsu，suizheshijiandetuiyi，sinianhuiyuelaiyuenanyijietuo，zheiyeshifenshoujinianhuobunengfangxiaduifangdeyuanyinzhiyi。

　　2.告别过去的苦难

　　fenshoudeyuanyinkenengshiyinweibicizhijiandeguanxiyijingxiaoshile，huozheyinweiyouhenduozhengchaohewujie。raner，fenshouhou，tamenzhihuixiangdaoneiduanmeihaodeshiguang，quewangjiledangshidetongku。shishishang，ruguonixianghuxiangzhengjiu，nibixukandaodangshidewenti，bingyouyizhongchuliwentidetaidu。

　　3.交际圈缩小

　　fenshouduonianhou，youxierenhuifaxianzijizhujianshuyuanleshejiaoquanlideren。tamenkenengmeiyouxinpengyouhuoxinhuodong，zhishimomodixiangnianduifang。zheishi，tamenxuyaojijicanyushejiaohuodong，fenshoupaichiqiruhewanhui？zengjiashejiaoquan，ranhoubuzaibaduifangdangchengshenghuozhongweiyidezhidian。

　　4.对方的态度

　　zaizhengjiuduifangdeshihou，yaokanduifangshifouyoulexindeshenghuohexindelianren。ruguoduifangyoulexindeduixiang，zaizenmenuliyezhishitulao。gengzhongyaodeshi，womenyeyaozunzhongduifangdexiangfa，bunengqiangpoduifangzhongxinzaiyiqi。

　　zongzhi，fenshoujinianhaishifangbuxiaduifang，xuyaoyoujijidetaidu，renzhenshenshidangshidewenti，zhaodaojiejuewentidebanfa。tongshi，yaoxuehuifangxia，tuokuanzijideshejiaoquan。duiyubeiaikunraoderenlaishuo，xuanze“guozijidemeihaoshenghuo”shizuizhongyaode。