zaizheiduanguanxizhong,fenshoushiyijianfeichangtongkudeshiqing。dangnidebanlvhenifenshoushi,nihuigandaotongku,wufakaishi。raner,ruguonirengranshenaizhetamen,nikenengxiangyaohuifuzheiduanguanxi。neime,fenshouhouruhehuifuni?fenshouzhihouruhewanhuinanyou?
1.了解问题的根源

lejienimendeguanxiweishenmehuixianrukunjingshifeichangzhongyaode。ruguonimeiyoujihuijiejuewentihegoutong,tajiuhuidaozhiwentidejileihebaozha。zhaodaonimenzhijiandewentibingshituchulitamenshizhengjiuguanxidediyibu。
2.记住原因
buguanniweishenmefenshou,jizhuyuanyin。ruguonibujiejuegenbenwenti,huifuguanxizhishilangfeishijian。jizhuyuanyinyouzhuyunigenghaodilejienixiangyaohuifudeshifoushiyiduanyouqiantudeguanxi。
3.坦率地讨论
tanlvdetaolunshijiejuenimenzhijianwentidezuihaofangfa。ruguonirenweicuowuzainizijishenshang,chengrencuowu。ruguonijuededuifangyouwenti,niyeyinggaitanlvditaolun。tongguozhijietaolun,jiejuewenti,zhongsuguanxi。
4.保持理性
fenshouhoubuyaoshuohuaihuahuofapiqi。baochilixing,lengjingxialai,kongzhizijideqingxu。ruguonibukaixinhuojuedemeicijianmiandouhenyihan,neijiuzuodianbiedeshiqinglaizhuanyizhuyili。fenshouzhihouruhewanhuinanyou?
5.给一点空间
jiduifangyidiankongjiankenengshizuihaodefangshi。ruguonimeitianzaiduifangmianqianpaihuai,tamenkenenghuibiandeyinu。rangduifangyouzijidekongjian,zhongjianguanxitongchanggengjiji。
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