花镇：分手伤心时怎么挽回他

　　fenshoushiyijianfeichangtongkudeshiqing，youqishidangnirengranshenshendiaizheduifangdeshihou。raner，dangqingganguanxijieshushi，nikenengxiangchangshiyixiefangfalaihuifunideguanxi。neime，fenshoushangxinshizenmewanhuita？fenshouhounixianghuifushenmeni？zaibenwenzhong，womenjiangcongbutongdejiaodufenxizheigewenti。

　　1.深入分析分手原因

　　shouxian，nixuyaoshenrufenxifenshoudeyuanyin。zheiduihuifunideguanxizhiguanzhongyao。nixuyaokaolvyixia，fenshoudeyuanyinshishenme？shiyinweinibunengjiaoliu，haishiyinweidisanfang？ruguonibumingbaifenshoudeyuanyin，neimejishinizhengjiuleai，tayekenengbuhuichixutaijiu。

　　2.接受现实

　　youshihou，zhengjiunideganqingzhishiyizhonghuanjue，yinweiniyijingfenshoule。jieshouxianshi，nibixujieshouniyijingshiqulebici，bingkaolvnideweilai。ruguonishituzhengjiunideganqing，tazhihuirangnigengbeishang。weilezouchuyinying，nixuyaoxiangqiankan，zhongxinkaishinideshenghuo。

　　3.改变自己

　　fenshoudeyuanyinkenengshiyinweimeigerenhuonizijidexingwei。suoyi，nixuyaoxiangaibianziji。liru，ruguonideguanxiyouwenti，yinweinibunenghuxiangjiaoliu，neimenixuyaoxuehuiruhegenghaodijiaoliu。gaibiantamendexingweikeyizaihendachengdushangbangzhunihuifunideganqing。

　　4.用行动证明你的变化

　　yidanniquedinglenixuyaogaibiandequyu，nixuyaocaiquxingdonglaizhengmingnidebianhua。liru，ruguonibunenghuxiangjiaoliu，nikeyizhudonghetahuotaliaotian，zhanshinigenghaodegoutongjiqiao。yongxingdonglaizhengmingnidebianhuakeyirangnideqianrenxiangxinnishirenzhende，bingyuanyinuliwanjiunideganqing。

　　5.给对方足够的时间和空间

　　fenshouhou，nixuyaojiduifangzugoudeshijianhekongjianqusikaohefansi。ruguonipinmingdizhuiqiuta，tazhihuirangduifanggengyinu，yekenenghuirangduifanggandaoyane。yinci，fenshoushangxinshizenmewanhuita？nixuyaojiduifangyixieshijianhekongjianlaisikaotamendezhenshixiangfa。

　　6.不要钻角尖

　　ruguonicaiquleyiqiekenengdexingdong，danduifangrengranbuxiangfuhe，neimejiubuyaozoudetaiyuan。nixuyaomingbai，youshi，guanxiyijingjieshule，huifuguanxibingbushiyijiankenengdeshiqing。mianduishishi，nixuyaofangxiaziji，jixuzouxiangweilai。