分手后新欢怎么选择挽回

　　fenshoushiyijianfeichangtongkudeshiqing，wulunsheitichufenshou，douhuiduishuangfangzaochenghendadeshanghai。raner，dangnanhaifenshoushi，nvhaihuigengtongkuhewuzhu。neime，nanhaimenruhefenshouni？jintian，womenjiangcongduogejiaodulaifenxizheigewenti。fenshouhouxinhuanzenmexuanzewanhui？

　　1、了解分手的原因

　　nanhaifenshoudeyuanyinyouhenduo，biruaiqingpilao、goutongbuchang、chuguidengdeng。ruguonixiangjiunidenanpengyou，niyinggaishouxianlejiefenshoudeyuanyin。ruguoaiqingleile，keyishizhejiduifangyixiekongjian，rangta/tayoushijiansikaozijideganshou。ruguogoutongbuchang，keyichangshigaijingoutongfangshi，duotingtingduifangdexiangfaheyijian。ruguoshichugui，xuyaozixikaolvshifouyouhuifudejihui。

　　2、改变自己

　　ruguotadenanpengyoutichufenshou，henkenengshiyinweitajuedeshuangfangdeguanxiyouwenti。zaizheigeshihou，nvhaimenkeyishizhegaibianziji，rangzijigengyouxiyinli。liru，shizhegaibiannidexingxiang，dabandegengshishanghepiaoliang；niyekeyikaolvxuexiyixiexindejinenghuoaihao，rangzijigengyouneihanhemeili。

　　3、多做些事情来表达自己的感受

　　ruguonixiangjiunidenanpengyou，nixuyaofuchugengduodenuli。nikeyishizhezuogengduodeshiqinglaibiaodanideganqing，biruzuoyidunfengshengdewancan，songyifenqinmideliwu，huozhexieyifengganrendexin。fenshouhouxinhuanzenmexuanzewanhui？zheixiexingdongkeyirangnidenanpengyouganshoudaonidezhenchengheai，ranhougengzhenxizheiduanguanxi。

　　4、给对方一些时间和空间

　　youshihou，nanpengyoufenshoubushiyinweitabuaini，ershiyinweitaxuyaoyixieshijianhekongjianlaisikaozijideganshou。zheigeshihou，nvshengkeyishizhejiduifangyixieshijianhekongjian，rangta/tayoushijianqusikaohelixing。danshi，buyaofangqinuli。nikeyijiduifangfayixiewenxindeduanxinhuozhedadianhualaibiaodanideguanxinheganshou。