花镇情感：分手说太累了怎么挽回

　　ganqingshishenghuozhongzuihaodeshiqingzhiyi，youshiwomenhuiyinweichongdongerzuochuyihandejueding，birufenshou。dangwomenhouhuideshihou，womenhuiwenzijiyigewenti：“chongdongfenshouhounenghuifuma？”zaizheipianwenzhangzhong，womenjiangcongduogejiaodulaifenxizheigewenti。fenshoushuotaileilezenmewanhui？

　　视角1：了解分手的原因

　　zaijuedingshifouhuifuyiduanguanxishi，nixuyaozhidaofenshoudeyuanyin。ruguofenshoushiyouyixiexiaowujieyinqide，neimetahenkenenghuihuifuzheiduanguanxi。raner，ruguofenshoudeyuanyinshiyinweiduifangwanquanshiquleduinideai，neimejiuhennanhuifuzheiduanguanxi。yinci，zaijuedingshifouhuifuyiduanguanxishi，lejiefenshoudeyuanyinshifeichangzhongyaode。

　　视角2：考虑彼此的经历

　　ruguonixiangwanjiuyiduanguanxi，nixuyaokaolvduifangdeganshou。nixuyaozhenzhengguanxinduifang，lejieduifangxiangyaoshenme。ruguonizhishixiangwanjiuzheiduanguanxilaimanzunidexuyao，neimenijiuhennanchenggong。fenshoushuotaileilezenmewanhui？zaizhongjianaiqingshi，nixuyaozunzhongduifangdeganshou，nulimanzuduifangdexuqiu，erbujinjinshiguanzhuzijideganshou。

　　视角3：寻求帮助

　　ruguonixiangwanjiuyiduanguanxi，dannijuedenizuobudao，neimenikeyixunqiubangzhu。xunzhaoxinlizhiliaoshiyigebucuodexuanze，yinweixinlizhiliaoshikeyibangzhuniyingduifenshoudetongku，taolunruhezaicijianliguanxi。

　　视角4：考虑时间

　　wanjiuyiduanguanxixuyaoshijian，suoyinixuyaonaixin。yujiyuhuidaoguoquxiangbi，nixuyaozuodeshifangmanjiaobu，buyaoqiangpoduifangmanmanpobing。ruguonishituzaifenshouhouyiliangtianneiyaoqiuduifanghuidaonishenbian，neimenidenulikenenghuirangduifangshuyuanni。