分手后我怎么挽回？四种技巧挽回

　　fenshoushiyijianfeichangtongkuhebukejieshoudeshiqing，zheiwangwangdaozhiwomenzhangqiyilaihehuainianwomendeqianren。danshi，xianzaiderenwuyijingfangxialewomen，tahainenghuifuma？rangwomencongduogejiaodulaifenxizheigewenti。fenshouhouwozenmewanhui？

　　一、了解原因

　　fenshoudeyuanyintaiduole。youxierenxuanzelikaishiyinweita/tayougenghaodexuanze；youxierenxuanzefenshoushiyinweiaiqingmohebuhao。ruguonixiangjiunideqianren，nixuyaoxianlejiefenshoudeyuanyin，zhaochufenshoudezhengjie，ranhoucainengcaiquxingdong。nikenengxuyaoyuqianrengongkaigoutong，lejieta/taduiganqingdetaiduheduiweilaidezhunbei。ruguota/tayijingzuochulechedidejuedingbinggaosuni，yexushishihoufangshoule。

　　二、纠正自己

　　ruguofenshoushiyounizijidegerenwentiyinqide，neimezhengjiunideqianrendeguanjianshijiuzhengniziji。yexunitaimangle，hulveleta/tadeganqing；huozhenitaishaogoutong，rangta/tagandaowuliaohegudu。fansizijidequedian，chengnuogaibian，zaicixiyinqianrendezhuyi，kenengshiyigehenhaodejihui。

　　三、有意识地保持联系

　　shijianshiwuqingde，fenshouhoushijiandeliushihuizhujianshuyuanrenmenzhijiandelianxi。yinci，fenshouhoujinliangbaochilianxi，buyaowanquanqieduanyuqianrendelianxi。raner，yexunimendeguanxiyoudiankunnan，meiyouchujiduifangdedixian，lejieduifangdedixianfeichangzhongyao，baochi“heshi”delianxi。yexunikeyichengweihaopengyou，baochijiandandeyouyi，fenshouhouwozenmewanhui？zheiyeshiyizhongqinggandechixu。

　　四、可以选择修炼自己

　　xindeaiqinggequkenengzaiqianmiandengzheni，danhuifujiankangfeichangzhongyao，suoyinikeyixuanzetansuonideyouxiu，tigaonidesiweishuiping，biandegenghaohezixin。zheibujinkeyitigaonidejingzhengli，rangnigengyouxiyinli，haikeyitigaonidexinlisuzhi，gengkuaidizouchufenshoudeyinying。