男朋友对你死心，男朋友放下了还能挽回吗

 nanpengyoufangxialehainengwanhuima？xuduonvxinggukezaizhaodaowomenzhiqiandoufeichangjiaolv。tamenjingchangweizheijianshierzhengzha：wodenanpengyouyijingfangqilewo。wonengzhengjiuwodeaima?wozhinengyongposuidetuanjulaihuidani“zhiyaotameisi，jiuyidingyoujihuiwanhuichenggong。”

 niweishenmezheimeshuo?shishishang，taxianzaiduinidetaiduqujueyuniyiqiandexingwei;taduinidetaiduqujueyunimuqiandexingwei，yejiushishuo，ruguonixianzaizuoduile，tahuigaibianzhuyi。jintian，zaizheiliwugejiandandebuzhoulaijiaoniruhezhengquedihuifunideai。

一、失恋不纠缠

 dangxuduorendiyicifenshoushi，tamenchangshileyixiejiduandehuifufangfa，birubuduandadianhuahefasongxinxisaorao，zaigongsihuolouxiazuzhita，huozhezhaodaotadeqinqihepengyoulaishuofuta。yinweitamenzaizheigejieduangengjiaminganhechongdong。

 yikaishi，takenenghuilimaodijiniyixiejiandandehuiying，dandangnijixujiuchanta，xiangtabiaodanidexiaojiqingxushi，zheiwuyizhengmingtalikainishiduide。yinweidangnizhaodaotashi，takenengzhengzaihepengyoujuhui，huozhetakenengzhengzaixiangshouyigerendegudu，ernidechuxianpohuailetakuailedexinqing。

二、在挽回爱情的时候，要积极自信

 weileburangzijihuidaozaogaodeqingxuzhuangtai，womenkeyichongshiziji。canyugengduonengrangnikuailedeshejiaowangluo，kaikuonideshiye。nikenengrenweizheiyuzhengjiutawuguan。shishishang，nizixindemeilishiyizhongqiangdadewuqi，keyirangtagaibianzhuyi。

 kangnaxingyechuangshirenkangnalaoshicengzaigongkaikeshangshuo:“huifubushiyizhongbujiucuoshi，ershiyizhongercixiyinli。nuligongzuozhihuidaozhinidedixingxiang，beidongdijieshouduifangdefanying;diergexiyinlibangzhunichuangzaojihui，jianliyigejijidezhuangtai，rangnicaiquzhudong。

三、恢复需要对症治疗

nixiangguoma?taweishenmefenshou?taweishenmeyaofangqini?zhengjiuaiqingzuizhongyaodeshizhaochuwenti，duizhengxiayao。

 liru，tarenweinitaileile，fenshoule。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，tayinggaichengrenzijidecuowu，jitayixiekongjian。zaizheigehuanchongqi，tayinggaigaibianziji，gaibiantaduinidekanfa，tigaotadexiyinli，dadaoercixiyindexiaoguo。

 lingyigelizishi，tarenweinizongshibuxinrentaerfenshou。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，niyinggaifanshengyixiaziji。tashifoujingchanghuaiyizijishifoujingchangzhaocha，yinweitameiyoujishihuifuxinxihuojietingdianhua，shifoujingchangyoubuheshiyidejiancha。zaizheigeshihou，womenyinggaixiangtabiaodawomenguoquzheixiexingweideyuanyin，zhidaozheijitadailailemafan，jianglaiwomenhuigaibianziji。gengzhongyaodeshi，womenyinggaizaiweilaibaochilianghaodeyizhixing，binganzhaowomendechengnuoquzuo。

 fenshoudeyuanyinyouhenduo。ruguonimeiyoufaxiannidehexinwenti，bingjiangyaowuyingyongdaoanlizhong，neimenidehuifuxingweishiwuyongde。liru，tafenshoushiyinweitabuxinrenni。zaizheigeshihou，nibuduantigaonidexiyinli，lanyongyixingciji，zheiwuyihuirangshiqingbiandegengzao。

四、理解的爱比冲动的爱更深入人心

 yiweinvxinggukecengjingfanguozheiyangdecuowu。meicitatingnanpengyoushuohua，tadourenbuzhuganshetadexingwei。suizheshijiandetuiyi，tadenanpengyoubuxianggaosutashenme。zuihou，fashenglemaodun。fenshouhou，tazhaodaowomengongsibangzhuhuifu。ruguonitingdaoninanpengyoubaoyuan“niweishenmebudongwo?”suoyinixuyaozhuyi!zenyangcainengrangnanpengyoujuedenirenshita?

 zuizhongyaodefangfashixuehuiqingtingta。qingtingdeguanjianshiqingtingerbushizebei。dangnidenanpengyouhenishuohuashi，takanqilaihenanjing，henqingsong。jishitayouqingxu，tayeyinggaihetayougongtongdechouhen。shijieshangderenzuixinshangziji。dangtanengganjuedaonilijieta，xinshangtashi，nihuizhujianshenrutadeneixin，chengweitadejingshenyilai。nibujinshitadeqingren，yeshitadezhiji。

五、准确沟通消除误解

 nanpengyoufangxialehainengwanhuima?womendouzhidaogoutongzaiganqingzhongfeichangzhongyao。weishenmeaiqingzhongdexuduojiaoliuzuizhongyanbianchengzhengchaoshenzhifenshou?yinweizaixuduowuxiaodejiaoliuzhong，tamenguoyuzhuzhongxianghuzhize，meiyoumingquebiaodazijidexuqiu。liru，ruguonidenanpengyouchenmiyuyouxi，quefapeiban，nihuibaoyuanta“wanwusangzhi”，“bushangjin”huo“landuo”zheixiehuabuhuirangtaduopeini，fanerhuirangtajuedenihenfan。