和同居四年的女友分手后，4年怎么说分手？

 yigeyueqian，tongjunvyouzaiweigaozhideqingxingxiahurancongwojiazhongbanli，yuneitianwanshang10dianlijigongbufenshou，wobuzhidaofashengshenmeshi，tagaosuwolehaoduohaoduodefenshouyuanyin，shuowobingbuguanzhuta，dajiameiganqing，tadoubuchusezheixieyidaduiyuanyin。tagaosuwo，wogaizhaoyigegengqiangde，zheiyaowoshenxianleshenshendidekuijiuzhong。4nianzenmeshuofenshou？

 xiangbudao，banyueqian，tagongbuhexinganqingdeguanlian，10tiannei，talaidaoxinganqingjiazhong，jianguolingyifangfumu；zuori，dajiazongsuanzaitajiazhongpengmianle，tafumudaochang，dajiaxuanbufenshou。

 jingguohoudiaoyan，fajuetongjushenghuohetadexinganqingzaozaiyinianqianjiuhuiyouguoaimeiguanxi，neishihourangwofajue，lijiquanzu，fenfenrangrangciciaimeiguanxiderenhuoshineiren，2ciyuanyinjunshiqiannanyouxiangneigerenbiaomingzishendeganqingqingkuangweidanshennannv。

 woyutongjunvyougongchusinian，tajiang4nianzhineibuxiangjiehun，wojiangkeyideng4nian，yinianqian，bicifumupengmian，shangtaodingqin，jihua2022nianshiyiguoqingwanhun。sinianlai，woyuqinrentourulexuduoganqing，congneixinjiupingdingleyaohetazouyibeizi。

 zheisinianqinei，wojiuhuijueguoxuduoyixingpengyou，danlinjinjielehun，tachuguitaren，yaowonanyijienatongjushenghuosiniandenvpengyouzaiguoqudeyinianduoshijianliyucitongshiaimeiguanxiqitananshengdekeguanshishi。4nianzenmeshuofenshou？

 tazhishizhizhongbugenwoshuofenshoudezhenshiyuangu，zheiyaowoyizhichenxianzaikuijiuzhongwufaziji，daiwofaxiankeguanshishihou，tabuzaihudexintai，rangzenghenyouzhanyoulewodedanao，rujinzaoyichuyubengkuibianyuan，zaoyihaojiumeiyouyiqiezhengchangderichangshenghuole，yizhizoubuchulai，meifajienakeguanshishi，yixinyiyidetouruhuandedezeshipanbian。wogaizenmezuo？

 yiqianwanmeideaiqingqingyouyumouzhongyuanyinerfenshou，wulunshishenmeyuanyin，wulunsheixianmingquetichufenshou，jianxinbicidoushihuigandaokongju，doushihuiyoutiantadejuede。youxieren，yijuebuzhen，cihoupoguanposhuai，anranlequecansheng；youxieren，huaaitongweinengliang，shenkefansizishen，nulipinbo，zhujianxindeganqing，youzhelezigedexingfukuaile。

你遭遇的处境，应当明白的一些大道理：

 1、meirenkeyisunhaini，chulezishen。nizhibuguoshiquyigebuzaihuniderenbale。hunlianjiaoyoubuchenggongdetongchu，yuqishuotasunhaileni，daoburushuoshinimeifangleziji。shijishang，jiarunimingbaizheiyidadaoli，niyejiuhuijiangzishenduizijidesunhaihuanjiedaozuishao。

 2、nengbawode，caisuanshizhenzhengyiyishangdexingfukuaile。youyixiekanqilaixingfudewupin，jihudoumeiguishuyuguozishen，jinyounengbawode，caisuanshiguishuyuzishendexingfukuaile。jirancuoguolede，neimejiubenlaibushuyuzishen，hebizhizheyujieguo，diaonanzishenni？

 3、hunlianjiaoyoubuchenggongshiyicicongtoukaishidejiyu。yiqianyouyiweixianzheshuo：zaowuzhujiniheshangyishanmendeyucitongshi，yidinghuijinizaidakaiyishanchuang。yaoshimeiyoufenshou，dajiazenmehuihaiyoujihuizaiquhegengheshizishendenanshengchuduixiangni？

 sheigankendingmingrinipengdaodeneiyigerenjiuyidingbushinideyinyuanni？sheimeiyouzaifenshouhou，caixunzhaoshengmingzhongdelingyibanni？ruguoniziqiangzili、xiangshoushenghuo，huodepiaoliang，huodejingcaifencheng，niyejiuhuizaiquntizhongbeitaduokankanyiyan。

 niyinggaihenxingyun，xingkuimeiyouheneiyangdenvshengwanhun，yaoburanhunhoutawaiyu，ninengmianduigengduodenanshouhewuru，neiyangdenvrenbuzhiaixi。

 4nianzenmeshuofenshou？rujinwuluntayouyushishenmeyuanyinyunifenshou，neiquanshiduinimeiganqingle，ganjinsheqiba。tafangqini，huoxubulejieganqingrichangshenghuo，huoxujiushinibunulizhuanqian，huoxutayeshigeshuixingyanghuadenvren。buguanzenyang，fenshoule，jiugankuaizhenfenqilai，haohaogongzuoyushenghuo，niruguoshiyouqichuse，zhihouyouxieshitahouhuimojideqingkuangxia。