怎样和前任聊天复合？

 suizhenianlingdezengzhang，nihuifaxian，yuedazijijiuyuegudan。youqishigongzuoleyihou，xiangchifandoumeiyourenpeiniyiqi，zheizhongshihounizenyangheqianrenliaotianfuhe？ruguonixiangzhaotafuhedehua，zheixiezenyangheqianrenliaotianfuhedeliaotianjiqiaoyidingyaozhangwohao。

一、怎样和前任聊天复合

1、倾听对方的烦恼

 xianggenqianrenfuhezenyangliaotian？nikendingbunengzhijiewenzuijinfanshenme，yinweinidedao“meishenmeshia”dedafukenengxinghuihenda。suoyinikeyixuanzeyuhuiyidian，youjiqiaoyidian，keyixianshuochuzijijinqidefannao，yiyindaoduifangzuo“mimijiaohuan”。

 xuyaozhuyideshi，nidesuoweidefannaokendingbunengshinifannaoxianzaixiangfuhedanshiduifangbuyuanyi，yebunengshinizaidanchunchuandixiaojifumiandefunengliang。pirushuo“woheshangsinaofanle，beigongsijiegule，guojitianyaojiaofangfeile，ermamayoushengbingle”，jishizhenshineiyangdeqingkuang，niyekeyibashiqingshuodeduizijiyouliyidian。

2、xuehuihuiyingduifangdefannao

 jiaruduifangzaihuifuzhongshuochulezijizuijindeyixieganshou、fannao，neiniyaozhenduiduanxindeneirongzixidejinxingtiwen、fabiaoyijian。cishibuyaozhuanyihuati，yejiushibuyaozizuocongmingdecharuxinhuati。huifushijianbuyaogetaijiu，ruguomeikandaohuifuwanleyaoqingchudejieshi，“ganggangzaikaihui，huixinxiwanle。qishini……”。

 xianggenqianrenfuhezenyangliaotian？nibixurangduifangganjuedaoniderenzhenhezhongshi。chucizhiwai，keyijiarushidangdechengzan。piruduifangzaibaoyuangongzuohenwuliao，meitianmanwumudedezaigongzuo。nikeyishuozijiyeyouguodeleisijingli，huozhekeyichengzanta：“qishiwojuedenitingnandede，bijingnibiyeliangnianlehainengjianchiziji，nengbaochishangjinxin。”

3、buyaowuguantongyangdetiwen

 ruhegenqianrenfuheliaotian？buyaozongshirangduifangzuohuida，nizongshitiwenerbushuoziji，zheiyangduifangjiumeixingqujixugenniliaoxiaqu。biru“nichifanlema？”、“zuijinguoderuhe？”、“shangbanmangma？”zheizhonghuatidoushibuhaode。

 qianrennenggouhuifunixiaoxishiweilebuxiangchedigenniduanlian，bushilaixiangnizuogongzuobaogaode。zaishuoleniyibushitalaoba，ernimenyijingfenshou，bierenpingshenmegaosuni，jiguanqiangyiyangdelianxutiwensheizhaojiadezhu？bulaheinijiubucuole，tahuinixinxidesuduzenmeyaoqiugenniyigepinlvni？

 ruhegenqianrenfuheliaotian，suoqujiazhizhiqianxiantigongjiazhi。birunixiangwentazuijinzenmeyang，neimenixiangaosuduifangzuijinnidetishenggaibian，youkenengtadangshibuhuiganxingqu，danshitongguoyiduanshijiandegaibian，tahuimanmanxiaochuduinidexintaifangxian，jierduinichanshengxingqu，manmandezheiyangduifangcaigengleyihenihudongliaotian。