前男友找我复合却对又没以前对我好怎么办？

 lianggerenzaiyiqijiulezhihou，ganqingkendingduoduoshaoshaojiuhuichuxianliehen，zheizhongqingkuangzuiduofashengdejiushizaimoheqi，zaishuangfangbuquedingshifouyaofenshouzhiqianshineishihoudexinliyibandouhuiyouliangzhongzhuangtai，neiqiannanyouzhaowofuhequeduiyoumeiyiqianduiwohaozenmeban？

一、前男友找我复合却对又没以前对我好怎么办

1、释怀过去

 weishenmefuhehouzhaobudaoyiqiandeganjue？fenshoufuhehoudeaiqing，kendingjiazazheduiguoqudeyixiemaiyuan，shenzhiweiqudexintaizaiqizhong。wulunshenmeyuanyindaozhidefenshou，dougaosuzigeheyifangyiqiecongtouzailai。

2、不要旧事重提

 fenshouzhiqiandeyuanyin，benshenjiushiwufashuodeqingde“maohedun”，suoyibubizongjiujieyiguoqudejiushi，jiranzhongxinkaishibiranshijingguoneixindeyifanhengliang，daibiaozhezhanxindekaishi，buranzhihuishiguoqumaodundeyanxu。

3、buyaoqiangqiuyifanggaibian，xiangaibianzige

 aiqingyingshijulihuiyouzheiyangdetaici：cengjingbudongaiqing，xianzaidongle。fenshoubenshenjiushiduizigeguyouxiangfadeyicixili，erbushijixudejijiaoyifangdequedian，womendouzhidao“touzhiyitao，baozhiyili”dedaoli，yaoxiangbierengaibian，shouxianxuyaogaibianzige。

4、给一方信任

 weishenmefuhehouzhaobudaoyiqiandeganjue？jiranzhongxinxuanzefuhe，neijiushuomingbicixinliqianguayifang，bicixinliyouyifangdeweizhi，erbaochiganqingwenguzuizhongyaodeyidianjiushidaxiede“xinren”。

5、保持正常姿态

 wulunshinayifangyaoqiufuhehuofenshou，douyinggaibaochizhengchangdezitai，buyaoshizhongjiujieshiyifangtichufenshoueryumen，huoshizigetichufenshou，yifangxiangfuheergaoao。fenshoufuhezenmecainenghuidaoyiqiandeganjue？yinweiaishipingdengde、xianghude，erbushishisheyubeishishe。

6、别隐藏内心感受

 youyixiefenshouyouzhongxinzaiyiqideqinglv，zenmenuliyezhaobudaocengjingdeganjue，queyoubuyuanyizaicifenkai，yushimianqiangzigejieshou，bingnulishuofuzige。baozhezheiyangdexintai，bujinzigenanshou，yifangyechenzhong。aiqingxuyaoganxin，bushizuozuo，gengbushiweizhuang。

7、biezainafenshoulaiyaoxie

 fenshoufuhezenmecainenghuidaoyiqiandeganjue？biezongshiyong“fenshou”laitiaozhannizaiyifangdeweizhi，zheiyangzhihuijiangyifangdenaixinyidiandianmomie，zhongxinzaiyiqile，jiuyaobicihaohaoai，haohaozhenxibicizhijianlaizhibuyideganqing，bieyiweirenjiachulenijiumeifahuole。

二、复合后如何回到从前

1、解决具体矛盾

 dangchubujiejuezheixiewenti，shiyinweijiejuewentibingbuyouliyunimendewanhui，erxianzainimenfuhehou，fenshouyitianfuhehouzenmebimianganga，jiejuewentijiuxiandehenyoubiyaole，fouzetongyangdemaodunjiuhuizaicichansheng。fuhehouruhehuidaocongqian？buyaoxiangzhetaobi，zhiyouzhimianwenti，yifangcainengkandaonixiangjiejuewentidejuexin，xiangweichilianggerenguanxizhangjiudeqiwang。

2、增加共同回忆

 fenshoufuhehouruhexiufuguanxi，keyiduozuoyixieyouyiyideshiqing，zengjialianggerengongtongdehuiyi。keyichangshijiyishouge，yigedidianfuyuyixieteshudeyiyi。keyiqunimenlianggerendouxihuandedianyingqujingdi，shenlinqijingzhongtiyanaiqingdemeihao。zheixiegongtongdejinglihuiranglianggerenzaizheiduanganqingzhongtourugengduo，ranglianggerendeganqinggengjiashenhou。