分手后还能做朋友吗？

分手的那一刹那是干净利落快刀斩乱麻的，可经过失恋的痛苦后，是选择和前任继续做朋友，还是从此老死不相往来呢？分手后还能做朋友吗？假如想和前任继续做朋友，又该怎样做才能避免尴尬和痛苦呢？ 想知道更多的小伙跟 花镇情感小编 来了解一下吧。

一、分手后还能做朋友吗？

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