说分手了男友还联系我，这种情况下怎么挽回对方？

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一、最先得找到累的缘故

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 shijishangzheigeshihoudepoyifangshibianshigoutong，youyumeiyougoutongjiubuqingchulingyifangzaixiangganshenme，jiusuanlingyifangqueshiyaoxianghenihaohaojiaowang，yebuzhidaozenyangtiejinni。nijiranjienabushanglingyifangdeyixiegerenxingwei，neimejiuyingdangdaqidegaozhilingyifang，shitaqujienanichangshuodehuaqugenggai。zhixutakeyigenggai，neimefenqijiukeyichuli，liangrenjiaowangqilaijiuhuishilingyizhongqingkuang。

二、用轻轻松松的方法交往

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 danjiarunimeiqushuozheizhongneixindeniantou，lijiranglingyifangfahuo，lingyifangjiuhuiyouyixieshouzuwucuo。bingqiezaifahuodeqingkuangxianiyagenburongyiduitashuolingyifangzuobuduinaxie，yincilingyifanghuiganjueshifenshenxinpibei，youqishizhangqiyichangdeganqingguanlian，feichangrongyirangshuangfangdouganjueshifenpijuan。jiaruzheileishierjingchangdefashengjihui，liangrendeganqingjiuhuiyuelaiyueyulaiyumingan。bingqieneiyangfeichangrongyirangganqingzhongdeliangrenyuelaiyuegengweibijiaomingan，youyutamendanxinzishendeyixiegerenxingweibujingyijianweihaidaolingyifang，danyidanyouneiyangdeniantoushi，liangrendejiaowangjiubutaikenengqingqingsongsong。