一别两宽是分手吗？我该如何挽回他？

 qinglvzhijianjiaowang，zaisuonanmianfashengyixiekekebanban，chanshengzheizhongshiqingshishifenyiqiezhengchangde，danshiyeshiyoudeqinglvzhijian，yidanfashengfenqi，bianhuifapiqi，erqiesheiyebutuoxie，yeyouhenyoukenengfenshou。lirunideyixieshiqing，chuyudaolenanyoudedaodedixian，nanyoushengqile，zhunbeiyunifenshou，fenshouneitiantashuoyibieliangkuan，yibieliangkuanshifenshouma？wogaizenmegennanpengyoushuofenshouwanhuidehua。shifouyoufangshinenggouwanliutani？

一、不能用使他反感的方式

 nanyouweihefahuo，niyinggaishilejiede，henyoukenengjiushinichuyudaoletadedaodedixian，yincitacaihuichuxianzheileijuece，naizhidaofenshoudechengdu。shijishangzheileigerenxingweishinenggoufangzhide，biaomingniyiqianbingbulejieta，caihuizuochuzheileibuzhengque，caihuipengchudaotadedaodedixian。jiarunanyouzaoyishengqile，nijinkenengtiaoxuanrouhedefangshilaiwanliuta，qianwanbietiaoxuantafangandefangshi。

 youdenanrenzuifangannvxingxunzhaozijideqinrenfalaosao，zheileizhuangkuangshijishanghenpubian。youdemeinvbeifenshouyihou，yixiangbudaobiededefangshi，jiupaodaonanrendejiazhongyoukuyounao，haoxiangshinanrenqiyaleta，tayongzheileifangshidaonanxingjiazhongxunzhaokuanwei。zheiyifangshiqueshinenggoujinanrendetiaoxuanchanshengweihai，keshiyehuiwanquanderenaota，youyutashinanrenzuifangandefangshizhiyi，fenshoushiliangrendeshiqing，zaizheigeshihouqianwanbiebatadeqinrenjuanjinqu。jiaruniyongletafangandefangshi，zongshishitagengweifahuo，dajiadeqingganyejiugengweiwufawanliule。

二、要掌握他的心态转变

 nanrendexintaigezhonggeyang，youdenanrenbiaocengshanghenshengqi，naizhizhunbeiyunifenshou，keshineineixinbinghenbuxiaxin，tamenyebuguoshishuochulaiheyixiani，kankannidexintaizenyang。jiarunimeiyouzhuyaobiaoxianchutamenyugudezhuyaobiaoxian，henyoukenengtamenqueshihuifenshou，youyunirangtamenxinhanle。yincinixuyaoduozhangwonanrendexintaizhuanbian，lejietamenneixinzaixiangganshenme，caikeyizuochuqiadangdefangshi，lirucongtashenhoulaiyigedadadeyongbao，huoshijijiderencuodeng。

三、学会放下脸面委屈求全

 jiaruqueshijiushinideyuangu，youyunichuyudaolenanyoudedaodedixian，fashenglebuyinggaifashengdeshiqing，nanyoushifendefahuo。zaizheigezhuangkuangxia，niyeyaonaxielianmiana，zuihaoweiquqiuquan，likewanliuta，xiangtashenbiaoqianyi，duitashuozheizhongshiqingbingbushiniyouxinzuode，bingqienizhihoujueduibuhuifashengzheileishiqingle。wuluntazenyangchizeni，nidoububibianbo，youyuzheigeshihoudequanbubianbo，douzongshijiazhongtaduinidemaiyuan，juedenishizaituixiezeren。nvxingjiarubaozhengweiquqiuquan，juedaduoshudenanrendouwobuganxinsunhaitamen。

四、必须坚持到底

 youdenanyouxingzihenjue，fahuoyihoubianshihongbutaihaodexiaogongniu，wulunniruhequhongtamen，tamenyizhizoubuguoquneixindeneizheiyiguan，juedenibaoqianta，yincibukenkuanrong。zhenduizheileinanren，nixuyaozuodebianshijianchidaodi，ruguoninengjianchibuxieshouhuzheta，zongshihuiyouqingkongwanlideneiyitian，tayehuijiandaoniduitadezhenxinshiyi。yibieliangkuanshifenshouma？yebuyiding，qishifenshouneitianzenmegennanpengyoushuofenshouwanhuidehuabeijujueleyebuyongdanxin。nanshenghuisuizheshijianzhujianhuainiancengjing，daoshihoudewanhuilvjiuhuidadatigao。