一别两宽是分手吗？要跟你分手的时候怎么如何应对？

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一、你需要充足掌握另一方

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二、要给另一方充足的时间协商

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三、为自己留些时间与空间

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四、你能发展趋势一些小兴趣爱好

 yingduilengbaoli，meiyigerendounanyijiena，qingxushangdeyanlidajishijiaodade，zhenduizheileiyanlidaji，jiarunibukeyibafumianxinxiqingxuqianyichulai，yizhikucunjiyazaixinli，jiuhenyoukenengshinideshenxinjiankangzaoshouweihai。yincinihebufazhanqushiyixiexiaoxingquaihao，liruniyiqianxiaidayumaoqiudapingpangqiu，nenggoubaogebanxuexipeixunyixia。jiarunixiaiyundongjianshen，haikeyiqubangejianshenguan，youshijianquduanlianyixia，qianyifumianxinxiqingxu。

五、适度的沟通交流

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