怎样和情人分手不痛苦？异如何拯救?

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媳妇非得与我离异如何拯救?怎么挽回坚持离婚了的媳妇?

一、挽留离异媳妇，要先寻找缘故

 liyiyizhiyouyuangude，conglaimeiyourenyaomomingqimiaoliyitanchangqitianjiufenshoudelianai，yinciyaoxiangwanliunidexifu，jiuxuyaobayuanguzhaochuqu，bubitingjiantajiangnaxiebianshinaxie，ruguoyigenvrenshuodebuyidingbianshitamenzhenzhengdeniantou，nixuyaoxunzhaotamenzhenzhenzhengzhengliqudeyuangu，caikeyixiangbanfatianbu。nixuyaozhuiyiyixiayiqiantaduiniyounaxiemaiyuan，shifouyouyuniqiguozhengchao，jinqiyounaxiedadezhuanbian，tanchangqitianjiufenshoudelianaixunzhaoyuanguyihou，caikeyilejietaduiqinggandebumanyizhichu，caikeyiyouqiadangdewanliufangwei。

二、挽留离异媳妇，要静下心来开展一次深入交流

 liyibingbushisuoshi，youqishiduizhongguoshijiatingeryan，liyishishifendadeshier。jiejuezheileishier，yidingbubitaijijinpai，youyushierdaozheiyichengdu，zaoyibingbushixinjihedongnunenggouchulidele。nixuyaozuodeshihetazuoxialai，haohaodideshenrujiaoliuyixia，bubilikedizhitadeguiding，nenggoutingyitingtadeniantou，jiusuanshilihunzhiqiandezuihouyicigoutongjiaoliuba。zaizheileiqingkuangxia，yibantahuijiaoweishifangyali，duinishuozenmehuiliqu，tahuibazijideniantoudoushuochuqu，neiyangtayeshifangyaliyixie。zhidaotajiangwanyihouzenyangheqingrenfenshoubutongku，nenggouduiyutamingquetichudenantikaizhanbiaoshu，bubiqiangzhiwanliuneilei，bianshihenkeguanxingdekaizhandianping，tajiangdeduibianshidui，cuobianshicuo，wuxushuncongheezhi。zenyangheqingrenfenshoubutongkunidianpingyihou，haikeyifabuzishendeguandian，rangtazishenzaizuojueding。

 shijishangkeguanshishijiuzheiyang，nvxingyoudeqingkuangxiameiyoufaxieqingxudeshineikongjian，bixuneiyangzuoxialaibashiershenkaileshuo，tamencaizhidaonantidesuoshu，kenengshiyidiandianxiaoshi，rangtamingquetichuleliyi，zheiyangyilaijiukeyishuofuta，tahuiguilejiatinghewofenshourangtasheqizheiyiniantou。

三、挽留离异媳妇，必须自身先发展起來

 xifuwangwanglinierqu，nideshenshangyidingyoufeichangdadenanti，yincizuoweiyigenanrentahuiguilejiatinghewofenshou，niyidingyaolejiedaozishendebugoudian，yaolejiezishendeyiwusuoshu。yingdangjinzaodefazhanqilai，bayiwangdebuchengshubulizhibulixingdougaizheng，zhuyaobiaoxianchugengweichengzhidexintai。ruguonichengzhidelizaitadeyanqian，zhanshichugengweiwanshandeqingkuang，yexukeyixiyinzhudaota，shinidexifuxiangyaozaicizhangwoni，zaicipeizainishenbian。