两地分居，你说分手就分手我也不回挽留？

 tanleliangnianduodeduixiangfenshoulemaodunzairenjijiaowangzhongshishifenpubiande。keshi，fenshouyaoshandiaolianxifangshimajiarunichajuezijichuyuyigemaodundangzhongerzaocheng nideqingganfashengfenlichulaidezhuangkuangxia，neimajiuhuiyouqidaidedaojijizhudongdejieguo。jinguannihenyoukenengmeifalianghaokongzhijieguo，keshininengzhiliyuxiufufensuideguanlian，zuixianxuehaozenyangjiejuesunhai，suihoujianbieheshizhegenjuyuzheifenairenkaizhanshidudegoutongjiaoliulaichuliguanliannanti。xiabian，shijijiayuanwoshiniyijuhuawanhuiganqing，nishuofenshoujiufenshouwoyebuhuiwanliujiaonizhishijinyong7zhongfangshijiuyaozheifenairenpeizainishenbian。

1、开启沟通交流的大门口。

 fenshouzhihou，zaicixiyinzhuairenhaoxiangshiyixiangjianjuderenwu。shubuzhi，yuliangdifenjuhoujinxinglianluozuizhongyaodedingyishizhenzhenzhengzhenglingtingnideairenbingzhongshitadeyaoqiu。jiarunichangshizhujianjiaotan，dannideairendouhaimeizhunbeihaojiaotan，neimaguanjiandejiushinirangnideshijianhekongjian。niyaoshuomingniduiairendeyaoqiuhenbijiaomingan。

 shizhegenjutongdianhua，faxinxihuogenjudianziyouxianglianluonindeairen。jianyidishuo，rutong“nishuofenshoujiufenshouwoyebuhuiwanliuwojuedegennitanyitanzheileizhuangkuang，nikaiqilemeiyou?”jiaruninbeihushi，qiewufanfutonghuahuofaxinxi，liuyanbanliuyanbingbiaoshuninxiangtaolunchanshengdeshier。nishuofenshoujiufenshouwoyebuhuiwanliuninbixuzhidaonindeairenzhunbeihaokaizhanhuihua。

 jiarunindehezuofangxiangyaoyuningongxiangyouguantichufenshoudexinxineirong，qingshedingyigeshijianqinzipengmian。fenshouyaoshandiaolianxifangshimagonggongchangheshiyigefeichanghaodetiaoxuan，youyutamenshizhongxinghuade。yizhongtiaoxuanshichumenyinyongkafei。jiarunixiaidaliangdegerenyinsi，ninengyiqisansanbu。

 fangzhichuxianzainideairendejiali，yuanxiaohuoyewuliuchengdizhiweijingxuanbu。zheinenggoubeishizuoweibeiletadejiexian，fenshouyaoshandiaolianxifangshimabinghenyoukenengzaocheng daliangdemaodun。fanguolai，zaizheiduanshijianliuyiairendexinyuan，bingzhongshitadejiexian;jiarutabutiqianzhunbeijiannihuotaolunzheigewenti，neimaqushitahenyoukenenghuizaocheng jinyibudedikang。

2、零距离沟通交流。

 dangchangshichulimaodunshi，weilegenghaodiqudechenggongdadaorangbuhuojiejuefangfa，zuihaokeyilingjuligoutongjiaoliunanti。lingjulichupengyubawolingyifangchangshuodeneirong(xinxineirong)heqingkuang(yudiaohezitaidengfeiyuyanbiaodagoutongjiaoliu)degongzuonengligengqiang。

fangzhifaxinxi，dianziyouxianghuodianhuahuihua。jinyouyingyongzheizhongfangshidegoutongjiaoliucaikeyichuangjianyigeqinzipengmiandeshijian。

shizheyugaigongzuorenyuankaizhanlingjulidejianmian，tantaoshoutoushangdenanti。

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3、应用自信心。

 zixinxingoutongjiaoliushitantaoguanliannantishizuihaoshidezhuanyonggongju，yinweitazhiliyuyishidudefangfabiaoshuzishendetihuiheyaoqiu。yingyongzixinxinfangfahuitishengnidexinxineirongbeipubianjienadegailv。yaoliji，danyaodangxin，jiaruniyaoxiufuguanlian，lijiguanyunidexinyuankenengshiyoulide。biru，ninengshuo，“woqueshixiangzaibicizhijianxiufuwupin，wobuxiangshiquni。”

4、防止积极主动的观点和行動。

 jijizhudongdegoutongjiaoliuhegerenxingweideyixieshilibaohan：dashenghanjiao，tanleliangnianduodeduixiangfenshoulemazanghua，dihui，zhaohuanmingcheng，shenxun，weixie，jiwuzhuodebiaomian，qiwu，rengwuheda。zheizhonggerenxingweibulitishengjijizhudongdeguanlian。buguidingta，bubiguoduoguzhi，yishidaoshenmeshihou“bu”daibiaozhe“bu”。

5、限定处于被动沟通交流。

 chuyubeidonggoutongjiaoliubaohan：buyongshuoyiqieshier，fangzhi，hulve，yanzang，tanleliangnianduodeduixiangfenshoulequconglingyifangyaoxiangde，meifazaibixushihuijue，huijuequanbuyiwu，zaiduoyushizhiqian，fangzhiyanguangchupenghepzui。bubifangzhizheigewenti，zheiburongyizaocheng maodunchuli。changshizixinxindigoutongjiaoliunidetihui。