如果一个男人不爱你了，分手伤感的话有用吗？

 nanrenquanshishifenhuaxuewuzhihezhenyingde，tawangwanghenizaiyiqirichangshenghuo，kendingyoutadeyaoqiu。meiyouyiduanganqingganquebaoxiuchengzhengguo，ganqingbianshichaochaonaonaode，congguzijinquanshizheiban。jiarunimeizhangwozheiyinanren，nanrenyaoxianglikaizhihou，nikendingmeifaliuyouta。jiaruyigenvrenmingbairenrangdehua，nanrenjueduibuhuitandewuyan，tamenhuishidudetuoxie。ruheyunanpengyoufenshouhouzaifuhe？ruguozaochengduinanrenzuizhimingdefenshou，bushijinjinzaipengyouquanfafenshoushanggandehuajiukeyiwanhui。

一、拿得起放得下

 yigenanrenjueceleyunifenli，kendingyoutadeyuangu，bingqieshitalijingshenzhongkaolvzuochudejuece，kendingbingbushiyirufanzhangdetiaoxuan。yincizhenduizheiyijuece，nixuyaochongzudezhongshi，bubisipilailiandewanhuita。yeyouyuganqingyongyouxuduodekebianxing，cairangtachongmanlezheimeduodepiaoliang，rangrendeneixinshengchongjing，rangziguyilaidechengqianshangwanwenrenyashiyinciluandao。nijiarusipilailian，zongshishitajuededaliangdeyanjuan，zhenduidajiadefuhexingyidianyichuyemeiyou。zhidaodajiadoulizhiyihou，zaiciqulianluota，yexuyeyouwanhuidehenyoukeneng。

二、欲擒故纵

 zaiganqingli，conghuidenvrenjueduibuhuihenanrenlijidikang，tamenzaipengdaobubiandeqingkuangxia，tongchanghuiyingyongyuqinguzongdefangfa，genjuzheileifangshi，nenggouwanhuinanrendexin。zaiganqingli，nvrenyizhiquanshiganzhiruoyidecunyou，tamenhuibazishifangdehendi，shijishangtashijiaowangdeyizhongfangshi，genjuchixudedaotui，keyibaganqingcongfengxiandebianyanlashanglai。nvrenxuehuileguanlizijideyaoqiuhexintai，jiuxiangdangyucaozonglenanrendexingzi，yifangmianweihubaoyanglenanrendezizunhelianmian，yifangmianyehuirangnanrenlibulezishen。zheileinanrenzhixufangqini，kendingcongcizhaobuzheheshitadenvrenle，youyuzainideshouhouxia，tazaoyixiguannvrendetuoxiele。

三、以诚待人

 yiduanganqingdejieshu，kendingbingbushimouyirendenanti，zhishiliangrendoucunzaidewenti，jiarunimeimingbaiyichengdairen，bumingbaijiejinsuonengdeweilingyifangsisuo，kendinghuichanshengfenqide。yincizaiwanhuiyigenanrendeqingkuangxia，yaoliuyiyichengdairen，lejietanayifangmianmeiyouhuodedadao，najigefangmiancunyouyihan，niyejiucongzheizhongcengmianqutianbuta，bubitaizitaomeiqu，jiarutaqueshihenrenxing，niyejiubuyongtouruguoduolaiwanhuile。jiarunijuedetahaifeichangzhidewanhui，niyejiugenjuzheileifangfaquwanhui，huoshihaiyoujihuide。

四、顺水推舟