为什么用分手伤感的话总是挽回不了前任？

 shijishangwanhuibuchenggongderendoushiyouyigexiangtongdian，wanhuibuchenggongderendoushiyouxiabianzheihaoduogeguanlianxing。jiaruniyijingwanhui，niwubilejiezheizhongjinqu。buran，nidewanhuijiutulao，zhishixiaohaozishendeshijianbale。ruheyunanpengyoufenshouhouzaifuhe？ruguozaochengduinanrenzuizhimingdefenshou，bushijinjinzaipengyouquanfafenshoushanggandehuajiukeyiwanhui。jiaruniyaoqudechenggongwanhui，neimeniyejiugengyaoqingxizheizhongwanhuiquanguochengzhongjinqu，fangzhichuxianyiyangdebuzhengque，neiyangnidewanhuicaikeyishibeigongban。

善于与人相处

 nanyicongliangrendeshenghuobianweiyigerendeshenghuofeichangjiannanba？woyaogaosuniyaozhaodianshizuo，xiangyounigudandesuiyue，ninengfajuenibingbugudan。ninyoupenyou，kechengneironghejianshenyundong。ninengmeirihuijiadaochuangjiushui，zuoyixiefengkuangdeshier，rangzishenleguanyixie。ruguoniduziyirenshi，nikeyishiquziwo，danjuebunengfangqizishen，nikeyiyongmaidongxilaixuanxie，danbubibaoshibaoyin，nikeyihemoshengrenliaotian，danbubiqingrenshuozishendeshier，zuoyigeyazhixinlidenvxing，daobieyouniganhexiaoyifeng，ninengzaisheng。

 quanbuwanhuidebuzhou、fangshideshunlikaizhan，qiantitiaojianjiushinibixudiaojiehaojiankanglianghaodexintai，qianwanbuyaorangfumianxinxixiaochendexinlizhuangtaibianchengniwanhuidaoshangdelanluhu，zulanniqudechenggongwanhuidejiaobu。

不容易回绝

 wanhuibingbingbushiyaochedidezunconglingyifangde，meibiyaobazijizhishenneimedidezishi。jiarunijiangnideshiyongjiazhifangdeneimedi，tahaibixuqufajuenidehao？tahuiyongnideyichulaidadaozishendechongdong。zheiliyouerzhongzhuangkuang。yigejiushinichuzaishangweibinghuranduitaweimingshicongle。zaizheileiqingkuangxia，nihenkongbu，nishizhongbukeyifanhuinideshangwei。yeyouyizhongtashiyizhongzhangqixingdediwei，yangniyejiubeiweidaochenailile。

 nidediweishiniyongyuanbuzhidaoruhejujueta。nijuedejiarunicicijujueleta，danyoutaweilaiburongyiduiniyouganjue。shijishang，bingbushizheiyangde。nidekuanrongdadushilingyifanglikainidezhenzhenzhengzhengyuangu。nixuyaozhaohuinidezizunxinshizuiguanjiandeshiqing，yeshiwanhuiquanguochengzhongbukehuoquedeshier。

报复心理

 jiaruniyaobaoyoubaofuxinli，neizhiyoubiaomingnibingbingbushizhenzhenzhengzhengdexiangwanhuilingyifang。nijinjinganjuenidetourumeiyouhuodeshouyi，jinjinbuganbale。jiaruniyaowanhuihousunhailingyifangyidedaoxinlipingheng，zheileixinlizhuangtaizongshizaochengbuchenggongdejieguo。daishangbaofuxinlidewanhui，qingzaixingdongqianzaisankaolvdao。zheileigerenxingweibudanduibierenchengdan，yeduinizijidexingfukuailezuochouma。

少说话，多聆听

 womingbaifenshouzhihou，nishifenqipanbiaoshuzishendeniantou。shijishang，niyoumeiyouxiangguo，jiarunidefangshishihelide，niyinggaizaoyifuhexing，jibiannidehuashifenmiren，jibiannixiangqizishenzheizhongyuyanshifendeyanyouzaier，nenggoushitadadong。woyaogaosuni，zheidouburunijingxialairenzhenqulingting。

 niyaolejietaxinlidezhenzhengniantou，bingbushibipotawenqi，zhishishifangyali，shitaxuehuifangxiaquanbudechengjianyunixianliao，nikeyizhenzhenzhengzhenglejietadeniantou。

性子

 wojingchangshuowanhuizuizhongyaodeshipingwennidexingzi，yixieyaoxiangwanhuizishenqingganderenbianshibuliuyizheizhongguanjiandian。tamenyibandeyuanyinjiushitataizhuailemeiyoubiezhu，tataiguofenle，wojinbuzhu，wotaoyanta，nilejienizheizhongmeiyoubiezhudebuliangyingxiangkenengshiruhema？

 zaiwanhuidechuqihuanjie，yingduiwanhuimubiaodehuijue，meiyoubixusangshizixinxin，youyutashiyizhongshifenhenyoukenengdezhuangkuang；meiyoubixurangzishenshenxiandijianbeiliedeqingkuang，zheitongchangjiushinizishenbanizijidairudaozheiyiqingjingzhong，erbushilingyifang。gaizhengsiweimoshi，jiangcishizuobicizhongxinxuanzedejiyu。