分手能复合吗？首先让自己变强大，然后平衡感情

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一、先让自身心里变强劲

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二、在感情中寻找均衡

 liangrenyaoxiangganqingyizhihaoxialai，jiudeweichiganqingdejunheng。jiusuanshilianaiguanxi，yigerenyebuhuiwujiezhideweilingyigerenfuchu，jiarumouyifangyizhibilingyifangfuchudeduo，neimezheileiganqingzhongjiuyouyirihuitaxian。tamenbixuhuodeduidengdeshouyi，neiyangdeguanliancainenggoujianchixiaqu。youyumeirenhuiwujiezhidexintengni，tamenxintengnishizaishixinglianaizhongdezeren，danniyeyouzerenjijiguanxinlingyifang，lingyifangyeshiyouzhipeiquanhuodeyiyangdeshouyi，bazheileifuchuzijintourudaoganqingzhong，neiyangcaikeyizuodaoyizhongjunheng。

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