明明还爱着却选择分手？3招教你学会如何应对失恋的痛苦

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1、不必尝试马上留有朋友。

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2、花一些时间来解决你的损害。

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fenshouhou，huayixieshijianweizijizaicipingdingnideshenghuo，bingsisuoniweilainengzuoxienaxiecaikeyikaixin。

 jiaruniyaohuayilianggelibaideshijianku，zainiderijizhongchuangzuo，suihoujinjinzaichuangshang，zheimeishier。danzainayihou，rujinxianzaishishihouzaidubaituoquanqiu，jianjiandizhujianzhongguiquanqiu。

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3、享有你的后关联生活。

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