明明还爱着却选择分手？想挽回，就得这么做！

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1、留有过渡期，给另一方随意

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2.立即把握前男友的动态性信息，学好适度的积极主动挽回。

 liqutabingbudaibiaozhetayagenbuguanxinta。youqishi，niyiranshenaizhe。yidanbawoleyutayouguandexinxineirong，nindeerduolimianhexinjiuhuifeishangqu。aibukeyimengpianzishen。shuowanhuiqudechenggongbingbuyi，danyiqiedoupayongxinderen。《zhenhuanchuan》limengjingxianbianshiduiguojunwangshifenpianai，zongsuanruyugudeneiban。ziran，gushihou，nvxingdelianaiziyoubingbushihenduo。suhuashuodehao，nvshengzhuinanshengjiacengsha。zhixuyouyouxiaodezhengtiguihua，kexueyanjiuwanhuijiuzaiyanxia。liuyiwanhuidejihui，fenshouhoujijizhudongfujianzishendepinpaixingxiang，weijianglaidefuhexingdiandingyouliangdejiben。fenshoujueqingdenanrenfenshouhouxinlibufamingminghaiaizhequexuanzefenshou，suoyoubuyongsilv“nanrenshuofenshoujiushizhendefenshouma”dewenti，dadandizuochuwanhuixingdongba！