分手再说我爱你，冷漠的女友容易挽回吗？

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1.分手后不抱怨另一方

 youderenfenshouhouhenyoukenenghuiganjuejizijiganlexuduoshi，neixinhenyoukenengbupingheng。youderenhuigaozhizhoubiandepenyouzishendeguoshi，naizhibaoyuanlingyifang。neiyangdehuanenggoubayishidetihuisuoyoubiaoluchuqu，danzheibushiqiadangdefangshi。shuozheijuhuahenyoukenenghuibalingyifangchuanruzishendeerduoli，youyulingyifangganjueniderenpinwenti，yincijueceyunifenshoudejuecehuigengweijiandingbuyi。

2.千万别联络，曝露低需求感

 fenshoudeqingkuangxia，xuduodixiongweibuzhengquezhiqian，juedelingyifangjiuhuihehaoruchu。keshibingbushizheiyang。yikaishifenshoudeqingkuangxia，lingyifangdeqingxuzuodaodianfeng，jiaruniruguoruanmoyingpaojia，tashimeiyouyidianyongde，neiyanghuishishiergengweiebian。

 zheishihouzuihaoshidejiejuefanganshishenmedoubuyaozuo，duandiaolianluo。nvren，haowuyiwenduoduoshaoshaodoushihuiyoudianerxiaopiqi，shihoudenimeilianluota，tafandaohuisinianni。juedezijizuobudui。nixuyaobaochiwendingdexintai，neiyangcaiyouliyuzuizhongdewanhui。

3.提升自己的表面

 zuoshibiezheji。haodebiaomianzuixingxianghua，zuixianyan。nvrenzuiyoufengcaidenanrenshimingbaihaohaodizhaoguhaoziji、jianghuahao、xingdongyazhideren。ruguoshineiyang，jiuyingdangxiangzhezheiyifangweiqinfen。

 yizhejinliangxiangwanshandefangweifazhanqushi。haiyaoxuexipeixunzuijibenshangdeliyichangshi。huanyigetouxingchuanhuishinijingshenhuanfa，zixinxinyehuijinyibutigao。

4.含义基本建设

 guangpingbiaomiandequebuhao。rujinnixuyaozuodebianshitishenghanyi。zuihou，zaijianglaidezhangqixingguanlianguanlifangfazhong，benshendehanyirengzhanfeichangdazhanbi。duokanshu，yizishendegongzuoweiguanjian，kuozhangzishendeshejiaoquanzi，zishenburongyidejiuxuyaoxiangtarenxuexipeixun。

5.适当的语言表达能力

 tishenghaogandushiwanhuiquanguochengzhongwubizuodeshi，lejieyongyuyanbiaodanenglitongchangshiyoumugongdude。biru，ruguonikuazanlingyifangshi，ninengchongfenkendingtadeshenxinghezhangxiang。zuixian，lingyifangbuyuanyouyiquyue。ganjuenvrentianxingbijiaomingandediyigeshijianjinyouguannian，juedeaizhujianhouduirenhuiweichiaideweiyifangshishiranglingyifangyishidaozishendeyichu。yincinijiejinsuonengfukuanlingyifangdeyiqie。