相忘于江湖是分手吗，分析原因对症下药

 fenshouzhihou，neiyigexintengnizhoumeitoushixinqingyumendenanren，buhuizaitingyiqiebiaoshuhezhiqian。xiangwangyujianghushifenshouma？chengran，buhaipachaochaorangrangdeouduansilian，zuihaipapingdanrushuidelikai。ganqingzhongdeqinglvchangchangyinweigezhongjimaosuanpideshifenfenhehe，biruwoxiezhuanghounanpengyouyaofenshouzenmeban？buxiangfenshounanyouweixiezenmeban？huazhenkanguowushuxingxingsesedeanli。shijishang，zhenduinanreneryan，qianrennvyoulianluotamenshiyijianyoumanzugandeshier，zaihenduonanrenxinli，henbudeqianrennvyoubunengwangjitamen，neimewanhuinanrendexinxiaojiqiaoyoushenme？xiabiandajiaxianlaipouxiyixiafenshoudeyuanyin，zhixulejiefenshoudeyuanyincaikeyiduizhengzhiliao。

1.分手的原因太比较严重了

 shijishangnanhaihenvhaiqingganquanshiyoudaodedixiande。lirunvrenganjuenanyoubushandaiziji，jiuhuiremafanlaizhengshizishendeqinggan；nanyouhebiedenvrenxianliaohenkaixin，nvrenhuichuxianjinpogan.zhenduinanreneryan，sunhaizizunxin，yizhibeinvyouweixie，yeshiganqingdehonggang。pinciyueduo，liqudexinxinjiuyuemingxian。huoxunizhiqianchengrencuowutahuiyourouguaduan，danzhixutaxiangyixiangnishuodehua，tajiujienabushang，zaiciyunibuduanjiaowang。zhizhinidewentichuli，buguannizenmedaoqian，renkeninenggenggai，tadouburongyihuifuni。

2.累积了过多的心寒

 nanrenhenvrenjiejuekunnandegousibuyiyang，nanrenzaipengdaonantideqingkuangxia，tongchanghuitaobi、fengbiziji，zheijiushijingdiande“woxiangqingjing”。dangwomenduinishuo“meishier”deqingkuangxia，nanrenkenengshixinkoubuyi。shuo“meishier”deshenhou，shijishangshitamomodirangnixieleyizhangxiaozhitiao，leijileduinidexinhan。yikaishideqingkuangxia，worenweinanyizhuixihuanni，jiaruyounaxie，wonengyixiazikuanrongni；zhihouganjuedajiadoubijiaomang，buxiangyouyuyidiansuoshiyunizhengchao；guigenjiedishineiyigenanrenfajueyouyixieshierniyagengenggaibushang，nijuededequanshinizishendefangfa.ciketaduiniwanquanxinhanle，henizaiyiqiyebuhuishitahaoguoyigeren。naizhinidexintaitongchangbixutahaofeihenduodehuoliqufuwei。zhenduinanreneryan，dangganqingdechengbenfeiyudedaodexingfukuailefanbishi，jiumeiyoujianchixiaqudebixule。zheigeshihou，tajiuhuitichufenshou。nvrenburongyibaganqingxiangxiangcheng“bushiyanhuorenjian”。quanbudeaizuihoudoushihuiguancheluoshizaichuanyichifanyinshuishang。nijuederuguonichongzuai，niyejiubuhuilikai。shijishangzainanrenyanzhong，zhenzhengdeaiqingyoumenkande。ruguoaiqingweihairichangshenghuo，nanrenzaiaizhenijiuhuiyunitichufenshou。nvrenzaiyideshichuliandeganjue，nanrengengzaiyideshiliangrenjiaowangdezenmeyang。dangtaneixinrangniguoduoxinhandeqingkuangxia，tahuiganjuenijiushizheiyangderen，bukeyigenggai，zhiyoufenli。

3.修复的印像再次恶变

 ruguonishitanvyoudeqingkuangxia，maimengzhuangbshitademimiwuqi。xinwenbaodaokongxinenggouhuodetadehuiying，danrujinnishiqiannanyou，taduinibieryuanzhi。zheizhongjiliangduiqianrenbuqizuoyong。huoxu，nijuedeyidiandoubuxihuannidenanrenhuiyouyunizhujiankebodejianghuaerduiniyouganjuema？huoxu，nijuedezaoyibuxihuannixutaodenanrenhuiyouyudajiafenshouzhihoudewuchakongxierganjueniyouqiyoufengcaima？yincifenshouzhihou，diyibubimaidebijiaocha，dierbubibeixinwenbaodaozha。nijuedeneiyangdexingweinenggouwanhuinanren，shijishangzhiyouranglingyifangduinidexintaiyulaiyucha。yinci，woxiangshuodeshideshi：meiyigerenduiqiannanyouzuishaoyouyidianhaogandu。keshi，jiaruyigerenzaixinzhongyouqinggandeqingkuangxianenggouwuqingwuyi，duinishushiwudu，likaizhihoucongcibuhuitou，biaomingzaizheiliyiqiandajiadeguanlianyoufeichangdadenanti。bulunshifenshouyuanyintaibijiaoyanzhong，leijidexinhanguoduo，shinibuzhengquedewanliufangfalakainanyou？danzheibingbuyiweizhedajiazhongjianmeiyouwanhuinanrendehenyoukeneng。yiqieguanliandoushiyouyigezhichengdiannenggouwanhuinanren。ruguoninengyinqitadexintai，tajiuhuifanfubeinixiyinzhudefangshi，xiwangyunizaiduzaiyiqidejuede。