恋爱三年感情变淡，用那些分手后挽回女朋友的话有效吗？

 lianaishishifenmeihaodeshier。lianggerenyouyuchuzailianaijieduan，bicizhijianduijianglaichongchizhezhewujindexiasiheqidai。renshengdaolujiaodadekaixinbianshiduijianglaiwujinchongjing。keshilianaisannian，ganqingbiandannvyouyaotichufenshouzenmebanni？shijishangniwuxuyincihuangluan，youyuganqingbiandanbuyiweizhemeiyouganqing，danshijiushiniduidajiadeqingganzijintourudeshijian，hehuolijiangdieryi，neixiefenshouhouwanhuinvpengyoudehuayenengjiejue。neimefenshouhouzenmewanhuinvpengyou？shenmenvyoufenshouhouwanhuijiqiaocainengwanliunvyoudexin，huaxianweiyini？

最先，不断地浪漫惊喜

 ganglianaideqingkuangxia，niyidinghuishifenmingbaiwonvyoukaolv。jibiantayaoxiangtiankongdeyueliang，niyehenbunengqunagemianpenchudianshuijitakanyikan。yincinvyouduiganqingdexiwangrutongzishenshigetonghuagongzhuyiyangbeikandai。xuduonanpengyoutongchangshizhuinvyousanfenzhongredu，yidannadaoshouhou，neigulanmanyejiutingzhile。yincibanvyoudetonghuamengsongrulehaiyang。shijishang，xuduonanrenyoubuzhengquedelianaiguan，juedelanmanquanshichuangjianzaixiaohaoqiancaidejibenshang。shijishangniwuxuchangchangsongtahuashuhuoshiqingtachidapai，nijinyongrenzhendijitatiqianzhunbeiyifenyiwaijingxi，jiusuanshichangyishougequ，shuoyiduanfenshouhouwanhuinvpengyoudehuajitating，huoxutadoushihuilecibupi。nvxingshijishangyoushiyaodeyefeichangjiandan，nvyoufenshouhouwanhuijiqiaojiushinineikexinweizhutazaizhuan，tahuiganjuetarutongtaiyangguangyiyangrongguanghuanfa。yinci，bubihushitadexiwang，wangwangyouxiwang，doushiyouyutahaishenaizheni。

次之，工作上互帮互学

 dangdaishegongkuaijiezou，dajiadejingshenyaliheshenghuoyalidoufeichangda。yinciyaomingbaitiexinnvyou，zuotagongzuoshangdexiaohuoban。xiezhutaxunsudifazhan，lianggerenbujinshiyeyuzunengwandaoyikuai，lingwai，gongzuoshangyekeyitidaoyikuai，neiyanglianggerendegongtongyuyanjiushifenduo。lianggerenkanqilaiqinglv，gengxiangpenyouhegongzuoxiaohuoban。neiyangdehuabuguanzuoshenmeshiqinglianggerenyizhinengbudiaoyizhi。jiarulianggerenbuzaixuexifangmian，gongzuoshangkaituochuangxin，neijiushishifenfengxiande，lianaiyebuhuizhangqide。。youyu，lianaishichuangjianzaiwuzhitiaojianyishangde，xianrujintanlianaibutaikenengshibolatushidelianai；butaikenengyitianzhitanlianaierrangrichangshenghuomeiyouxialuo。

再度，生活上温柔相待

 tiandinanrenneimeduo，tapianyaotiaoxuanleni，bianshiyouyutaganjuenijubeiguishugan，feichangzhidetayikao。yinci，fenshouhouzenmewanhuinvpengyoujiuxuyaoxuehaodanfu。xuehaotitazuotayouyiyideshideshier。xuduonanrenyizhibazijidenvyouchongdedandawangwei，youyutamenmingbai，jinyouneiyang，nvyoucaihuitishengduizishendeyikao。nvxingwulunshifouzhichangnvren，jiarujingshenshizhishangkeyiduinanpengyouzaochengyikao，neimelianggerenzhongjiandeqingganbianhuipingwenzhangjiu。yinci。bubiyouyushierxiaoerhushiquzuo，bubiyouyubingbushifenneizhishiershierbujian，yaoxuehaotilingyifangkaolvdao，tilingyifangbanshi，caihuiranglingyifangduinigengweidexinlai。jiarunizaishenghuozhongbuzhaoguta，zaigongzuoshangyedanshiwentagongzuozhongdeshier，zhangciyiwang，qingganjiudanle，cikejiumaixiangletichufenshou。neimefenshougaizenmewanhuinvyou？

 doushuonvrenrushui，neimejiurenzhenguanaiba！guanaitadequanguochengqingganyehuisuizhetiwen。shijishangnvrenyishenghenbuyi，xiangyoulianaidequanguochengyejiushizaijiehunqian。jiehunhoutongchangyouyujiazhongdelingsuitourudaliang。yinci，nixuyaomingbaitouruzaiqian，wenrouxiangdai，caikeyiyiwangwuqian，huandujinshengdedadaoli。