女朋友说分手我想挽回，但是我该怎么挽回她呢？

 nvpengyoushuofenshouwoxiangwanhuizenmeban？xuduofenshouhoudenanshengdoushizaichouzenyangwanhuinvyoudexin,shijishangzheixukandajiadeguanlian。ruguochuzaifenshoudebianyan，douhaimeifenshou，biaomingyeyouwanhuidekongjian，danshijishizenmehuishigong|fadajiaguanliandeebian，haixiangyaonishensishulv。jiafenshoudemudishilingyifangxiangshinigengweizaiyita，erzhenfenshoushiyouyulingyifangduinideguanlianzaoyiwanquanshiquzixinxin,buyuanzaiyuniyouyiqiejiuge。yinci,fenshouhouruhewanhuiaiqing，ruhewanhuinvyou，haibixuyijudajiadejutiqingkuanglaikaizhannvpengyounaofenshouwanhuijuezhao。

一、寻找分手的原因

 fenshouhouruhewanhuiaiqingyaoxunzhaofenshoudeyuanyincaikeyifenbiandajiashijiafenshouhuoshizhenfenshou。jiarudajiashiyouyuyixiexiaozhengzhi,lirunibunengmanzutadeyaoqiu,zaitifenshouhoulingyifanghainenghuiyingnixinxineirongnaizhijienidianhua，yudiaozhongjinguanbiaoluchufahuo，danmeiyoudichudexintaibiaomingtashiyinnixingfenshou。

 erzhenfenshoutongchangshiyouyudajiazhongjiandejihuamaodundaobunengdiaohedechengdu，lirunizishizhizhongmeifawanchengdefuwuchengnuonimeifajitadeguishugan，rangtaduinishiquzixinxin,zailiru,nimeifalejietazhenzhenzhengzhengyaoxiangdeshisha。zaitifenshouhou，taduiniailibuli，buhuizaihuiyingnideweixinxinxi，naizhibuhuizaishengjidongtaixing,xiangweixinpengyouquangongbudajiaguanliandejieshu，zheijiushizhenfenshou。

二、假分手的解决方式

 jiafenshoudenvhaiyexuhuiku，huinao，shuofenshouba，qianwanbielianluo。yibanxintaijiaoweimengliedefenshoudoushiyoukenengshizhuangzuoxianghenifenshou。neimezheigeshihou，tajinjinxiangbiaoshuyizhiyilaibeiyayigandebumanyihexinhan，nixuyaozhizhibulijiuhuiyouhenyoukenengzuojiaruyuanyichang。

 nvpengyoushuofenshouwoxiangwanhuiyinggairangtalejie，tahenzhongyao,wulunheshinizongshixihuantade,burongyisheqitade，youyiqiekunnansuishisuidinenggouzhaota。duoyongshijixingdonglaibiaomingniduitadeqingyi，liruduohonghongta，rangtajiandaoniduizheiyiduanqinggandetouru，jianxindajiaxunsujiuhuihehao。danbixuliuyideshi，hehaoyihouyaojijizhudonggoutongjiaoliu，diaojiehaodajiazhongjiandeqingkuang。

三、真分手的解决对策

 zuixian,nixuyaobawozhudajiazhongjiandefenqidian,zhenxinchengyixianglingyifangbiaomingzishendeqianjiu,bingquelibiaomingzishenhuizuochugenggai。danbubibiaoluchufuhexingdeniantoujianshaozishendexuqiugan，jiangdaliangdeshijianhuazaigenggaishang。zainishiyongjiazhijiaodi，shenghuobufengfuduocaideqingkuangxianishimeishenmejuedingquande，youyujuedingquanshizhongzaineimeshenghuofengfuduocaijingcaifencheng,nengzhengqueyindaonvrendenanrenshouli。zheizhongnanshengnengjifanvxingxianghetayiqishenghuodexiangxianghechongdong。neimehuanjuhuashuoniyizhizaiwanhuinvyoushijianshaoxuqiugandeguanjianshitigaonizijideyingruanzhengtishili。

 danglingyifangmanmanbeinixigong|deqingkuangxiagenjutishenglingyifangzijintourudefangshinenggourangtaganshoudaoxingfudeganjue，jinergengweixiangyaohenizaiyiqi。“wohenvyouyaofenshoulegaizenmewanhui”,pouxixiangxiqingkuang，zaikaizhanmudexingdeshijicaozuocaikeyishinishunliwanliu。

四、完善自我，再续情缘

 nvpengyounaofenshouwanhuijuezhaozuizhongyaodeyidian。nvyoubuxihuanzhiqiandenini，keshiruguoniyiquanxindewaimao、juyouxiyinrendefengcaizaicifashengzaitadeyanqian，tadabufenhuizaicongneixinyongqiyiguqingyi。ruguonizaicitigaolegerenjiazhi，niwanhuinvyoujiuhuiyuelaiyueyirufanzhang。