绝情男人分手之后怎么挽回

 fenshouzhihouzenmewanhui？jiaruniaiyigeren，zaoyihaojinlequanliyifu，meiyoulingyizhongtiaoxuan，neimemuqiandetiaoxuanbianshizuihaoshidetiaoxuan，zhongyaojiushiniyaomingbaikeshoujixin，jiandinglixiangxinnianhenanyoufenshouhouwanhuidehua，neimeshijianjiule，dangranhuishitaganshoudaozheifenai，fanhuinideshenpanglai。yaoxiangfenshouwanhuinanren，niyeyaomingjizheiyidian。xiabianshijigongxiangyixienanrenjueqingfenshouwanhuiganqingdefangshi。

第一，要先静下心来想一想怎么会来到今日

 tayaofenshou，jiaruniyuanyile，neimedajiazhongjianyejiuqueshifenshoule。jiaruwufashihuai，neimejiuyaozishenpingjingxialai。youyulizhihuiweizijiyigehaodifang，lingrennenggoujiepouxuewangridexiweimojie，rangzishenfajueshenmetiejinfenshoushiqingdewupin，rangzishenjianjiandimaixiangkeguan。yidannipingjingxialai，xiangxinnibisheidoukeguanxing。wangwangdajiadeqingganlaidaojinri，shifouzishentaizisizilileyidian？xianrujinzoudaofenshoudebianyan，huoshiduitaneimedejuannian？neimeshifoutazaozaoyibianchengnishengmingzhongbunengquedeyibufen。jiranzheiyang，youmeiyoushenmelianmianwangbudiao，yeyoushenmecuowubukeyikuanrong？jiarufajuemeiyoutaqueshibuhao，neimejiuyaozishenxuehuifangxiashenzi，qinfenfeijinxinsiyiqiebanfaquwanliuta。

第二，要跟他和解

 tajueqingfenshou，tongchangshiyouyutazaoyishougouyunijiaowangdemeiyifenzhong。nizuodeyixieshierhuoxudouzaoyicushitadexinhantoule。zheigeshihounixuyaoxuezhegentahejie，yaomingbaidixiatougentachengrencuowu。xuduonanrenyongxinqilaishishifenyongxinde，tamenfenshoubingbushishedantu，zhishiyigejuece。yinci，weihebubugaozishenangguizhedetou，xuezheyongwenwanhehenanyoufenshouhouwanhuidehualaiwanliuyigenanrendexin。xuduoqingkuangxiananrenwangwangbaquanbudesixudouyongzaigongzuoshang，jinjinjiecijihuilaizhegaizishenjingshenshizhishangdekumen，youyuzaitadexinlingshenchu，tashimeirenshenaizhede。jiarunihuoshiyizishenxiguanxingdefangfalaiduita，neimezhiyoushisunhaita，erbushizhenzhengdeaiqing，yinci，nixuyaomingbaibuduangentahejie，shitadexinjianjiandibianruanchulai。

第三，要收敛性自身的性子

 fenshouzhihouzenmewanhui？nanrenwangwangjueqingfenshou，guanjianshiyouyutakanbushunyanni。tawangwangkanbushunyanni，zuizhongyaodeshitayoubizhao。jiarutaneixinyouyigeren，zheigerenjingmingnenggan，tongqingdali，yizhikeyijiangnibixialai。neimenidecunyouduitaeryanzishenbianshibubiyaode，suiranniweitachuanzongjiedai，keshitaduinizhixuyiwu，erbukeyimeiyouaiqing。dajiazhongjiandeguanlianjinyoukaorijiyueleidezhenqinglaiweichi。jiarunigaobudongjinrizheiyidian，wuyuanwugujiugentafapiqi，neimezongshishitagengxiangfangqini。yinci，jiarunilejietayunifenshoudeyuangu，niyejiugengyingdangxuehaorangzishenneixinqiangdaderen，erbushizhuyaobiaoxianweiwaizaidezhangshiqiren。youyuduiaidezuihaofangfa，bianshiyongwomendeaixiyinzhuai，erbushiyongqiangzhixingdefangfaxunhuiai。rutong《xianqi》lideboxuanhehandayunzhongjian，tamenzhongjianjinguanchanzazheyigedisanzhe，keshitamenzhongjianzeshishifenxiangai，youyuwujie，youyujiazhong，dounenggoucuihuiyizhuanghunyinshenghuo。

 zhenzhengdeaiqinglixingde，yinweiaishiwomenfajuedajiaxinlidezhenzhengtihui，jinershiwomenqudechenggongdigenggaiwomenziji。nanrenjueqingfenshoushishijide，keshizhiyaonibusheqi，neimejiuyidingyoufangfajiejuedangjindenankan。yiqieqinfenranhousuiyueran，fangweicongmingrensuozuo。zaiwanliutashijinzhijinze，lixingfenxi、wuqiuhejie、shoulianxingxingzi，caijiushinifenshouwanhuitadezuihaobaowu。