youjuhuajiao:“qingruonikeyizidonghuakongzhi,yaoxinyoushenmeyong”ninengshuodongzishenwangleta,ninengshuodongzishenshihuai,keshinishuodongbushangzishendexinli,jiaruzishennengkongzhizhuganqing,neimejiubuyongxinxueguanle。huixiangdaohetadeganqingguocheng,shineimewennuantianmei,neileixingfujiushiyibeizidechongjing。talikaini,tayunifenshouyihoujiuwanquanyuniduandiaoguanlian、henyoukenengnijuedetashifenjueqing,jiuneimepaoxialeni,fangqiledajiadeganqing。niduitadezhizhemeifashinisheqiduitadejuannian,nixinxinyaowanhuiaiqing,yaoxianghetazaixuqingyuan,keshizishenyizhishizhegezhonggeyangfangshi,buguanshifagandongdefenshouwanhuiduanxin,haishixiexiewanhuifenshounvyoudeganrenhua。lingyifanghuoshiguoduanfenshou,qianxinwankubukejindu,nvpengyouxiangfenshouzenmewanhui?
一:扩大挽留的几率
fenshouhouniyaoxiangwanhuiairen,nihuizenmezuo?xianggegenzongkuangyiyangjiankongtadeyijuyidong,weixinpengyouquan,xinlangweibo,guanyutadeyiqieyidiandongtaixingdoujuebufangguo,huoshiqutaxiaomenkou,qiyedamenkou,damenkoujinzhuibushe。zheizhonggerenxingweinishibushiyezuolezaiqizhongyizhong?jiejushiruhe,wuxukandounengxiangxiangdedao,yongshijiezuilengdandeliankong,zuibingliangdeyuyanbiaodayixiadewangnixinzhaqu。
xuduodixiongshuo,:“nvrendexin,haidizhen”。buyuanbeizheigenzhencidebiantilinshang,jiubixuxiandudongnvrenxin,xuduoqingkuangxiamaodundebaofashixiaowentidedeleiji,dangzheiyimaodunchixufazhanzhuangda,leijidaoyidingshuipingshizhixufashengyigexiaozuijiaodoushihuiehuamaodunchansheng,dangmaodunchaochuciwaiyigerenjienayiwai,meiyoubanfajiena,erqieganqingcongcihuibudaocongqian,ciwaiyigejiuhuimingquetichufenshoudejuece。bubijiangchuyixieshangrendehuasunhailingyifangdexin,naizhizuochuyixiejiduanhuaquweixielingyifang,rangzheiyiduanganqingdaozhibukebimiandejushi。dangganqingchuzaiyigegaomaodundeqingkuangxia,yinggaizenmezuocaikeyikuodawanliudejilv?
fashengnantiyaofenxiwenti,renkenantidecunyou。meiyigerendoushihuiyouyigequbixinlizhuangtai,pengdaonantishi,zhixiangwangzishenhaode,buyongjizijidenantizerenren,yebuyongzishenqudanfuyixiliefengxianxing,zongqidailingyifangkeyiyizhimeiyouliyoudekuanrongni。yinci,fashengnantichixutaobizerenhaibibushangzhengshizijidenanti,yaoxiangfenxiwentidegenbenyuanyin,xiancongrichangdexiaochaoxiaonaoxunzhaonantidegenbenyuanyin,liru,nvpengyouxianqinipingshishenghuolalilata,richangbaojiezangluan,neinijiububijizijizhaodaliangtuoci,yingdangrenkezishendenantierqiejiuzhengbenshenbuzhengque。
chanshenggaomaodunshi,bachizebianhuanweiganqingjiangxueya。“meiqujiuchanbuqing,meiqugentazhenglunsheishisheifei,dajiazhengzhishideganqingbingbingbushijichulilun,zhishiganqing”。yincizaifenshoubaofaqian,zhongzhigenlingyifangzhengzhi,renkelingyifangdejianjieweidajiamengliedezhengzhijianwen,guohoububitongdianhua,shoujiweixinchixudezhaolingyifang,rangbiciyoulizhideshineikongjian,zhaoyigejihuijijidiaozhengnanti。
二:需求感越强另一方工作压力越大
fenshouhou,nijuezheshenghuoquefalehenduodongxi,yizhiduitawangbudiao,kongzhibuzhuzishen,mingxiandexiangyaoquhetafuhexing,jinbuzhuquhetatanganqing,yincijiubujingyifagandongdefenshouwanhuiduanxin,tongdianhuashuozhewanhuifenshounvyoudeganrenhua,feijinxinsiyiqiebanfaqutiejinta,niyuequtiejinta,zijintourudeyueda,nideyaoqiuyueda,nvhaigongzuoyaliyueda。danglingyifangbukeyimanzuniyaoqiudeqingkuangxianijiuhuikongzhibuzhuzishenkaizhansaoraota,danshineiyangzongshijianjiandimoqudajiayuanlaideganqing,rangdajiadeganqingzoushangbuguilu。
nvpengyouxiangfenshouzenmewanhuixuyaozhengquerenshifenshoudekeguanshishi,congtoukaishixindeshenghuo。fenshouhouhounibukenrenkefenshoudekeguanshishi,zongshirangzishengengtongchu、nixuyaozhengquerenshizheiyikeguanshishi,suihoufengfuduocainideshenghuo,tishengzijideshiyongjiazhi,caikeyitishengwanliudezhulizijin,bubisheqiujiezhuyuanxiandeganqinglaiwanliuta,tajirantiaoxuanyunifenli,yidingshishenzhongkaolvyihouxiadejuece。yidingshiyanjuanlezhiqiandeni,yanjuanlezhiqiandejiaowangfangfa。yinciniwubihuibian,rutongzheiyishehuijingjifazhanyiyang,niyizhizaimalubianmaigexinxianshuiguo,nikendingbuhuiyongweixinzhifubaoshouqian,nimaidewupinzaihuasuan,zaixinxian,neimeniyehuisunhaixuduozuoshengyi。
genggaixinlizhuangtai,fenshoumeigerendounanguo,cikejikuijiuyouzenghen,dandaliangdeshibeitong,weihefanlexiaoxiaobuzhengquetajiuxuyaopaoxiawoni?weihelingyifangneimewuqingni?weihebiaoshudejiyudoubujini?danshinimeirineiyangtajiuhuizaicihuijia,shiernenggouhuodechulima?zheileixinlizhuangtaiwanliulingyifang,daduoshushibuchenggongde。
三:提高你的恋爱等级
shenmejiaolianaidengji,tabianshijueceyigenanrenkeyibukeyizaiyiduanganqingguanlianshang,jubeilingzhenvxingdefazhanqianli。yiduanzhangjiudeganqing,yinggaishinanshiyigaoaozidalingzhenvshitaguoshenghuodemeiyigemenkan,dangtanlianaishiyongjiazhiguodi,nanshengbiansangshixiyinzhunvxingdegongzuonengli,。
tigaolianaidengjishibushijiuxuyaoduochuduixiang?youxierenrenweitigaolianaidengjibianshiyaotanguoshucitanlianaicaikeyileijichugongzuojingyan。shijishangbudoushi,lianaidengjinenggoucongganqingshenghuoguanjiandianzhongzhaodaoyouqidediqu,nenggoulejieweitigaobenshendongchali,bingbuyidingyaoduochuduixiang。nidelianaidengjiyiweizhelenishibushizaizhengpianganqingguanlianzhong,juyoulingzhenvshidegongxiao,zhengyouyuniyizhichuyuyizhongchuyubeidongdezishi,yiqiedouyouzhelingyifangqulingzheni,rangtazhujianqianghanduinixinhan,dajiaguanlianzuihoubengkuile。
xuduofenshoudelianren,wuyuanwugu。niyejiudegenjuchixuqukexueyanjiuqufaxianwenti,danglingyifangzuochumouleigerenxingweimouleifanyingdeqingkuangxia,niyaoduanlianzishenxunsuluojisiweinengli,tadeniantoushisha,genjukexueyanjiulingyifangdezaiqianyishizhongshizenmexiangde,kaolvdaolingyifangdetihui,nilejieyuanxianjintiandajiatanlianaiyibaitianliunianri,taxihuanyigepinpaideyifukuzihaozhangshijianle,nizhidaotadexuqiugan,suihouquwanchengtadeyaoqiu,tajiugengweijiezhunini。
bubibeifenshouzheiyijianshieryingxiangdaozishen,nixuyaoxuehaoyuelaiyuejizhi,congneidaowaitigaozijibenrenzhiliang,genshenpangdeyixingqingjiao,rangzishengengweizhangwonvshi,qinfennuligongzuozhong,weigongzuonuli,bianchengyigewenzhongdenansheng,feichangzhideduifangweinikanqi,kuozhangzishendeshejiaomeiti,suzaonichusedeyimian。
meiyigerendouxiangyouzheyifenchengzhizhangjiudeganqing,dajiajiranfenshoule,kendingshidajiazhongjianyongyouganqingliefeng,nvpengyouxiangfenshouzenmewanhuizhongzaixiubuwufamibutadexinli,jiusuantazaijueqingyeba,zhiyaonibusheqilingyifang,yidianyidianleijiqitaduinidehaogandu,yonghuanranyixindewaimaozaiduquyingduita,tajiuhuibeinixiyin,jienanidewanliu。
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