细水长流的爱情是什么

 xiangxinmeiyigehuaichuaimengxiangderendoukewangyongyouyiduanxishuizhangliudedeaiqing，neixishuizhangliudeaiqingshishenmeni？jiuxiangxishuizhangliudeaiqingyujuzhongshuode：“buqiuhonghonglielie，danqiuyoushiyouzhong，xishuizhangliu。”

 raner，bingbushimeiyiduanaiqingdounengyuanman，henduorenhuoxuzhongciyishengdouzaizhuixunaiqing，queqiuerbude。xishuizhangliudeaiqing，tongchangdouyouyixia6gegongtongdian，buzhidaonishifouyudaoleni？

一、彼此势均力敌

 zaiaiqingmianqian，nannvzhijianshipingdengde。huoxunizhuanqianhenlihai，danwoconglaibuzibei，yinweiworenmaihenhao，tongyangyouzheshuyuzijidebaoguicaifu。yinci，bucunzaisheipeibushangshei，huozheshisheigaopansheideshuofa。xiangfan，ruguoyigerenzongyinweimouxiequedian（lirushencaibuhao、xuelibugoudengdeng）errenweizijizaibanlvmianqiandirenyideng，weileliuzhuduifangerbeigongquxidetaohao，lianggerendezhijiandeguanxibiranhuishiheng，nanyizhangjiuweichi。

二、懂得互相珍惜

 ganqingzuipadejiushi，wotaoxintaofeididuinihao，erniquebuxieyigu，jiangwodehaotongtongjuzhimenwai。gennizaiyiqi，wobupachiku，yekeyibuyaopiaoliangdekouhonghebaobao，danqingyidingyaokandaowodefuchu，jiwoqimadezunzhong。aixuyaohuxiangfuchi，huxiangganen，cainengxieshoubaitou。wodefuchubusheqiunihuibao，danyebiebawodekuxindangchenglisuodangran，shidangshihouqingjiwoyigeyongbao，huozheyijuxiexie，rangwozhidaofuchushizhidede。

三、经常沟通交流

 meiyigerendouyoushuyuzijidequanzi，suiranlianggerenyiqitanlianai，shichuqufumuqinrenyiwaizuiqinmideguanxi。danyouyujiechudeshiwubutong，lianggerendekanfayehuiyousuobutong。cishi，weilelianggerennenggouyougongtongdexingquaihaohejinsidesanguan，goutongfeichangzhongyao。nikaixinhuozheshibukaixin，bushuochulai，duifangyouzenmehuizhidaoni？henduoshihoudaozhifenshoude，bingbushibuai，yebushichugui，ershiwobuwen，nibushuo，lianggerenzhujianxingtongmolu。

四、愿意为爱妥协

 meiyigerendouyouzijidemianziyujiaoao，henduoshihou，dangwairen，shenzhishiqinrenzuoleshanghaiwomenmianzideshiqingshi，womenhuifeichangqifen。danshi，zaiaiqingmianqian，zhiyaobuchupengzijidedixian，mianzibiandeyidiandoubuzhongyao。jiuxiangzhiqianchangtingdaoxiaohuayiyang，yiduiqinglvchaojiale，nanrenshengqideshuo：“sheigennishuohuasheishixiaogou”。kehoulai，nanrenhaishixiantoujiangle，duizhenvpengyou“wangwangwang”jiao，redetapotiweixiao。zaiaiqingmianqian，mianzisuanshenmeni，zhiyaonenggounizaiyiqi，neicaishizuizhongyaode。

五、变得更加优秀

 buhaodeaiqing，huirangrenhusiluanxiang，mianrongqiaocui。erhaodeaiqing，bujinnengrangrenrongguanghuanfa，haihuiranglianggerendoubiandegengjiayouxiu。zheiyeshiweishenmedajiadouguli“dizhiliangdelianai，burugaozhiliangdedanshen”。ruguoyiduanganqingbingbunengrangnigandaokuaileyutianmi，xiangdaoduifangnizongshichouyuncandan，zheiduanganqingfangaileniqianjindejiaobu。jibiannixianzaishebudefangshou，xiangxinzaibujiudejianglainimenhaishitaobudiaofendaoyangbiaodejieju。

六、一起规划未来

 yishidejiqingbushiaiqing，neihuoxuzhishiyouyuheermengeryinqideshentifanying。danruguoyigerenyuanyigenniyiqiguihuaweilai，yuanyiyunidajianyigexingfudexiaojia，neinimenzhijiandeaiqingbiranshinenggoujinglifengfengyuyude。kuaicanshiaiqingshidai，hedelaijiushangchuang，hebulaijiufenshou，weilaishishenme，conglaimeiyoukaolvguo。xiangfan，zuizhangjiudeaiqingjiushianbujiuban，yibuyibuxiangweilaikaojin。

 xishuizhangliudeaiqingyujuzhongshuo：“zaochenxinglai，niheyangguangdouzai，jiushizuimeideweilai。”yiduanheshideganqingjiushi，lianggerenzaiyiqidaoshihoubukeyi、buzuozuo。zirandeni，deni。napashenmedoubuzuo，niyezhidaolingyibanjueduibuhuilikaini！xishuizhangliudeshishenmezheibingbuzhongyaole，zhiyaolianggerenxingfuzheicaizuimeihaode。