“nihewomadiaopaishuile,nixianjiushei?”“woyushoujiyouxinayigejiaoweiguanjian?”huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?“nihewoqianrennvyousheijiaoweihaokan?”tanlianaizhizhongnvhaidezheizhongnantitongyichengzhiwei“nanyousongmingti”,jinguanzaiwangshangbudeshihouhuiyouduizheizhonghuatitaolundetucao,danxianshishenghuozhongjiarunizongchezhuzheizhongnantimeifang,chukaikanqilaibuanshishizhiwai,youshihouyehuirangnanpengyoufangzhinankandeqingkuang。
haowuyiwendeshi,yigemingbaijianghuadenvyouzainanrenneixindiyiyinxianghuitishengxuduo,neimalianaizhongyingdangyaoxuehaoshenmefangfani?wangxiakanba。
1.防止拿家人、前男友来做比较
rujinhenduonvhaiweilegenghaodizhengshizishenzailingyibanxinlideyingxiangli,yizhianshixinghuozhelijixingdinazishenhelingyifangdejiaren、qiannanyoulaizuobijiao,bingjiashechangjingranglingyifangzuochuxuanze。
neiyanghaowuyiwenshibalingyibanjuanjinzuoyouweinandechujing,ruolejiedeqingkuangxiahaiqiafengdajiayouhuiqinei,zheibanhuatitaolunkeweishimeiqujiangaliaole。shexiangyixia,fumufuyangtachengnianrenxiaohaodexinlihuoliniqueshinengbideguoma?shuoqiannanyoushuoxianhuadenanrenniqueshihuixihuanma?
ruciwuquqiefeichangrongyiyinqifenqidehuatitaolunjiububiwenle,shidudishuoyixieguanxindehua,huoshiyoushihoulaiyiliangjuliaorendeqinghuagengnengrangyouhuishiketiwen。
2.说话方式可转换
huazhenqingganjigouzhengguima?diyidianshuodaotanlianaizhizhongfangzhishuoyixiebuanshishidehua,danjiarufangfayingyongqiadang,nankandeyujuhaikeyizhuanhuanchengnitaorenxihuandexiaopiqi。jugeshili,jiarunizhouzhemeitouwenlingyiban,woyushoujiyouxijiujingsheijiaoweiguanjian?neimalingyibancikedediyifanyingdaduoshushishouzuwucuodilengshen。
erjiuzaijiezhetalengshendeqingkuangxia,nihurankaojinta,routadelianxiaojiangdao:“ziranjiushiwojiaoweiguanjiana,bujieshoufanbo!”zheiyixingweihuishitatidaodexinyishunjianxuehuifangxia,lingwaiganjuenijianzhigeyouqidexiaoxiannv,youhaoduyishunjianbiaozhang。
danshizheiyifangfadayuebutaishiyongzishenjiuchenwenqiechenmoguayandenvhai,xiayishixiangbeiyexuhuilingnizheiyixingweishaoweijiroujiangying,kezishenduojialianxizaishizhe。
3.索取时欲擒故纵
nanrengouwujilingyibanshihenyiqiezhengchangdeshier,eryingduinvyoudesuoqu,nanrenmenyibandouburongyihuijue。danyoudeqingkuangxiataqiahaoyeshiyoutexiangmaidewupin,erjingjifazhanxiandingxianiyaoxiangdehetayaoxiangdezhiyouerzeqiyi,niganwanbunengshuoyouyuzishenyaoxiangerqiangzhilingyifangyaomaidehua,zheiyangyilaitayoukenengyehuirangnimai,keneixinduoduoshaoshaoyeyixienanshou。
jiaruniyizhizaisuoqudeqingkuangxiayujuweiwan,mingbaiyuqinguzong,neimazhuangkuangjiuhuichedibuyiyang。jugelizi,nidelingyibanqiyefajiangjinle,niyaoshitamaiyizhichungao,ertayouyishuangxiezikanhaohaozhangshijianle,ciketangruoshuo:“wobuzaihu,niyidingyaobangwomaichungao。”neiyangdexintaihuilingtajuedeshifennanshou。
erjiaruonishuodehuashi:“zuorijiandaoyizhichungaowodoumanxiaide,danshiyouyishuangxieyinweiniyexiangmaihaozhangshijianle,meishiernihuanshimaixieziba,zuizhongyaojiushinigaoxingya。”zheibanyishuotabujinhuitongyinideguiding,bingqiehaihuijixujuedeshifenyuanyi,ganxinqingyuan。
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