教你如何面对失恋

 ruguoni fenshouhou lebidinghuihenshangxin，neimaninengzenyangmianduifenshouhou，fenshouhouzenyangduguoni？jiaruneixinmeidi，wangbianrangnizhiyixiaxiazhao。

一、怎样面对分手后

1、fenshouhouzheixiedoushixiaowenti

 zenyangmianduifenshouhou？wojuedefenshouhoushijianhenpingshideshi，meiyoushenmefeichang，yezheixiedoushixiaowentide。rutongyongcan，doulaidaofantangle，huranjiushishuomeiyoushiyule，buyuanchiwan，yexuhuranxiangqi，najiadiandetesexiaochifeichanghao，henxianglaichangyichang。lianaiyufenshouhou，jiushishuoneimeyihuishi。fenshouhouzenyangduguo？quyongcanya。

2、别归咎于爱情

 zenyangmianduifenshouhou？shilian，qingbieguijiuyuyuaiqing。buyaoshuo“wohennanbuzaixiangxinaiqingle”zheileidehua，yinweiaijihumeiyouxiangniquebaoguonaxie，jiaruyounaxiefuwuchengnuorangbieyiweidajiadeaiqingshizhongcunyou，neimazheiyifuwuchengnuozhizainiyuta(ta)zhongjian，yinciniyingdangshuo：wohennanbuganxiangxinta(ta)le，suanshiqiadangde。

3、fenshouhoutongkushiyiqiezhengchangde

 fenshouhouzenyangduguo？zaitongkuzhongzhaole。shilian，huoxutongkule，tashiyiqiezhengchangdeshenglixuyao，jiaruwobutongku，fandaoyixieguaiyilee。youyuzhenduirenmenlaijiang，sangshizhongjiubihuodegengfeichangrongyilingrenxintaixingfen。shehuixintaixueshiyanshuoming，dangzijiwuyuanwuguhuode100yuanyumomingqimiaodeyishi100yuanduibi，yishiqiandeshangxinyuangaoyudedaoqiandeyuyue。fenshouhou，sangshiziji，sangshi1fenqinggan，gengbieshuole。jinjin，fenshouhoudeni，buguanshizaitaitongku，quanshixintaizhuangtaiheshenglixuyaobale。

4、nisiniandebingfeizhenshideta

 xiangxinziji，nibingbushiwangbudiaota(ta)，nimeishimeikexiangdaodebingbushita(ta)，zhishizhuiyi。buxiangxin?neidengniliangnianzhihou，tangruoniyaoshizhonghaijidezheiyiren，meifaxuehuifangxia，turanmouyitianxiangfeng，duanduangoutongjiaoliushibugoujiniguanniandaoqishide，dengnizhangmouxieshijiandejiaowang，tongchangninengfaxian，neixinshizhongdianniandezheiyiren，haoxiangbutongle。huoxubutongle，youyunidianniande，wangbudiaode，jiushinizishensuoyingzaodeziji，zheiyirendaonidejiyilizhizhongyizhaonideyixianghuozhubale，bingbushizhenzhengdeta(ta)，yejiushishuojinjinta(ta)mouyibianbale。

5、時间会痊愈你

 zenyangmianduifenshouhou？nanrenfenshouhouzenyang。nanhaierhuibinvshenggenghuiyunyongshijian。wojuedeshijianhuijiaoniruhemiandui。shijianbashazhudao，doushishendanmiaoyao。gangtichufenshouderenyizhirenweiwonengzheibantongkuyisheng，zuishaotongkuliangnian，gaizenmebana?kekexueyanjiudejieguofajue，renyizhikandilezishende“chixin”，qitianzhihou，yigeyuezhihou，nidetongkujiushoudaofeichangdayingxiang。yinci，julietengtongjiurufashaoganmao，aoyixiaxiadaziranjiuguoqu。xiangzhe，zuixihuanganshenme?meishuhuihua?gequ?chuangzuo?manpao?yingpian?……zuixihuandegerenxingweihuizaiduanqineineihuanjienidetongkude。zheizhaonanhaierhuibinvshengyongdao

6、爱情并非所有

 nanrenfenshouhouzenyang，tabingburongyixiangnvshengneiban，baaiqingzuoweisuoyou。yincidangnvshengfenshouhoudeneishihou，bixuyaojilao。aiqingjiubuxiangxianzaizheiyangquanqiudesuoyou，yincizheigeshijiebuyingdangzhinengaiqing。xiangzhemeiyouta(ta)yiqian，ni，bingbushijiuzaoyicunyoulemeiyou?ni，bingbushizaoyiyouzishendexiwanghezhuiqiuwanmeilemeiyou?ni，bingbushizaoyiyouzishensuoxiaidexingquaihaolemeiyou?ni，bingbushizaoyiyouguoxingfudeshirima?……zheigeshijie，huoxu，cengzaimouyishijian，youyuta(ta)eryuelaiyuepiaoliangyidianermingliangyidianer，danjuebuhuiyouyuta(ta)ercunyoude。

7、细心等候

 yexuniyongyuanbuzhidaoyoujuhua：aiqingli，meiyoudaodishisheibunengqudaide。zhengyouyuzheiban，renmencaiyaoqujingyingaiqing，yaoburanjiuhuibeiqudai，dangran，renmenhuoxuyunyingle，keshiyunyingdefangweiyexubingbuzhukehuyaoqiu，zuihouyebeiqudaile，yincijiushilian，danconglingwaicengmianjiang，nisuowangbudiaodeneiren，yebingbushibunengqudaide。woxihuancaikangyongxiedeyiduanhua：yishangganqing，jinxinjieli，jieguoshoushang。yincicicilianaipapengshang，jiuhenbaocun。zheidaibiao：zhiqiannageshangnidelanren，huodezuixiangxideni，ercicizheiyifazhanqushizhongdelianren，huodegehenlengmodeni。wozhiniyeshiweihuzishen，danzheitangruozuomaimai，nizheidianbixudaode。juebuzaishuodeeke，huodeshifuwuxiangmu，erxingukeshangmenfuwu，queshenshoupaiji，zheidianruhebudao?danshixiangxin，zaiyebuhuisuibiande，suiyidequtanmeiduanlianai，ninenggengyouxixindedenghouheshiderenchuxian。