致分手：怎样对待前任才是正确的

 youxieqinglvfenshouhoubianchengmoluren，cishengbuzailaiwang。fenshouneitianwokanzhenizouyuan，niquetouyemeiyouhuidezoudiaole。shijiezongshizheimexiao，ruhemianduifenshoudexiehouni？zenyangduidaiqianrencaishizhengquede？xiamianzheipianwenzhangzhifenshouzhihoudenimen。

一、学会放下

 bulunshiyinweishenmeyuanyinfenshou，jirandoufenshoule，zheixieyuanyinyejiuchengweileguoqu，jirandouguoqule，neimehaiyoushenmekedianjideni，xuduorenchangchangyinwei“fangbuxia”erzixunfannao，qishi，guoqule，zaiduodehuihenheleishuidouhuanbuhuidangchudetianmihewenxin，haiburufangxia。fenshoudexiehou，ruguozaisuonanmianjiuyongganmianduitaba！

二、不见

 suiranshihepingfenshou，danshiyaowanquandefangxiatanherongyi，suoyibujian。yexudangshidefenshoushiyinweiyixiepobudeyiyiyang，huozheshizijileile，huozheshizijizaoyuleyixieshiqing，daozhidefenshou，yinweidouhaichuyuyigediaozhengjieduan，henrongyiyinweijianmianerchanshengqingxubodong。suoyizheishihou，duiyuqianrenruguomeiyoubiyaodeshiqing，zanshibuyaolianxi。fenshouneitianwokanzhenizouyuan，henduorendouhaiduifenshoudechangjinggenggengyuhuai，jiranhaifangbuxiajiubujianmianba！

三、以后再见

 hepingfenshouhoujishixuanzezuopengyou，yebunengduanshijianyiqishuohua，xuyaoyigeguocheng，dangbiciyouyoulexindeshenghuodeshihou，zheishihouduiyubicilaishuocaishifangxia，dangchudehepingfenshoucaikeyirangnimennenggouhenpingjingdequshuohua。

四、如果有伤害就不要再见

 jishishihepingfenshou，yeyouzailianaizhongshoushang，birukenengshiyifangyanjuanle，daozhidefenshou。zheishihou，ruguonizhendeshiweileduifangzhexiang，buyaoshuo，haishihaopengyou，neichuncuishijizijizhaoyigejiekou，zheiyangshuozhihuirangmeiyoufangxiadeneiyifanggengjiadefangbuxia。

五、迫不得已应理性面对

 youxieshihou，kenengfenshouyihou，youyuhenduoyuanyin，bukenengbushuohua。ruguoshizheizhongpobudeyidejiechu，zaixiangchudeshihou，yebuyaodaiyoulianaishidefuzaganqing，yinweidaizheganqinghenrongyirangbiciwufazhengchangxiangchu。

六、以普通朋友的方式对待

 fenshouhoudeqinglv，guanxihennanzaihuidaoguoqule，ernigenduifangdeguanxiyezhishijiehuyupengyouhemoshengrenzhijianeryi。suoyiruonihaixiangjizaifenshouhoujiduifangyigemeihaodeyinxiang，hainengzairihoujixubaochiyunidelianxi，neimezaizunzhongduifangfenshoujuedingdeshihou，xianlengdongnimenzhijiandeqingganguanxi，haohaoxiangqingchuwentichuxiandeyuanyin，ranhouzaizhenduiwentiyuanyinqujinxinggaizheng，zheiyang，dangniyiputongpengyoudeshenfenjiejintashi，nicaiyoumanmandizaicishenrudaotadexinzhong，chanshengercixiyindemeili。zheixiexiaofangfadoushizhifenshouhoudenimen，keyishishikan。