最美的风景是细水长流的爱情

 aiqingshitianmide，danmeiyiduanganqingdeweixidoubushineimejiandande，ruherangaiqingxishuizhangliu？ruhejingyingxishuizhangliudeaiqing？yaojingyingxishuizhangliudeaiqingjiuyaoxuehuixiangchudejiqiao。

一、相信对方

 “weishenmetadoubujiewodianhua?shibushizainageyedianwan?”“tajintianchumenmeiyouqinwo，shibushibuaiwole?”zaitanlianaideshihou，youshiyinweiduizijidemeizixin，rangzijibuzijuedehuaiyiduifang，erzheixieyiwenfangzaixinli，jiuxianggunxueqiuyiyangyuegunyueda，ranglianggerenjuliyeyuelaiyueyuan。yaolajinbicidejuli，yinggaicongxiangxinzijikaishi，ranhougengxiangxinduifang，bierangyishenyiguichengweilianggerenzhijiandezhangai，buguanyudaorenhewenti，douyaowojinbicideshuangshou，jiandingdixiangxinbici，yiqimianduirenhetiaozhan。

二、腾出空间

 “haoxiangsuishijiandaota!”haijiderelianqideshihou，lianggerengangfenkaijiukaishixiangnianduifangma?neixiesinianrangwomengengjiashenyuduifangdeailian，yougerenkeyirangniwushiwukedexiangnian，yeshizhongaiqingzhonglingyizhongtianmi。keshi，woainibudaibiaowoyaobangzheni，shidubaoyoujibicidekongjian，ranglianggerengeziqukuozhanshenghuoquan，fanernengzaixiangjushiyougengduodehuatikeyigongxiang。erfenkaishiyunniangdesinian，yehuizaijianmianshijidangchuwubidexiyue，rangshuangfanggenglejieduibicideai，duizheifenguanxiyegengzhongshi。yinweitanlianai，bunengyinweimeileduifang，jiubuzhidaoruheguohuo，ershixiangranglianggerendeshenghuodougengjiajingcai。

三、言语的表达

 suiranchangshuoxingdongshengyuyanyu，danshiyanyuquewangwangbixingdonggengyoubiaodali，zhijieledang。womenyaoshibushididuilianrenshuochuwomendeai。yijujiandande“woaini”huo“nijiushiwodequanbu”jiuhenyouyong，keyishilianrenganshoudaoguanxin，ganshoudaoai，zailianaizhongyouanquangan。

四、行为的传递

 xiaoxiaodeqinmijudong——zaiguodaoshangcashenerguoshipaiduifangbeiyixia，zuozaishafashanglouzhelianrendejianbang，aizhezuoshishoufangzaiduifangdetuishang，guangjieshishouqianshou——huirangnidelingyibanganshoudaonongnongqingyi，chuandinidezhenqingaiyi。xiaoxiaodechumohenzhongyao，bizhengyedefanyunfuyuqiangduole。

五、懂得欣赏彼此

 ruherangaiqingxishuizhangliu？womenyaochangchanggaosulianrenwomenzuixihuantanayidian——aimutashenme，tayoushenmerangwomenjiaoao，womenkanlaitayounaxieyoudian。rangduifangzhidaowomenxinshangtabujinjinshilianaichuqideshiqing，ershiguanchuanyuwomenzhenggeyisheng。womenyaobuduandegulihezhichibici。zhiyouzheiyangwomencaikeyibangzhutafahuiqideqianneng。

六、包容

 “wocaibuyaoshuoduibuqi，youbushiwodecuo!”，danglianggerendekanfabutongshi，youshihuilabuxialian，juedetuoxiejiushule!suoyihuiyouzhidejianchiyixie“yuanze”，hubuxiangrangyingpengyingdejieguo，zhihuiranglianggerendeganqingyuanqidashang。

七、敞开心扉

 buyaofengbiziji，yanzangzijidehaoe、lixiang、kongju、chengjiu、shiwudengdeng。womenkeyihelianrenyiqifendanzhongyaodeshiqing。lingwai，womenyinggaibaozhenglianrenshifenxiangwomenmimizuoduoderen，erfeiqitaren。suishuozaizuiqinmiderenqianyeyaobaoliuyidingdegerenkongjian，danhaishiyaojinkenengdiduochouchushijianlaihelianrentantanxin。

八、支持

 shenghuozhongdanglianrenzaoyushiyehuoshiquzhiqindeshangxinshishi，womendoumingbaigairuhelaianweiheguliduifang。tongyang，danglianrenweiyutongshichaojia，shangbanbushun，yishixiangbuqizhipiaofangnadengsuoshixinfanshi，womengengyaodongdezhichiheanweitamen。dangranqiantishiwomenbunengnilaishunshou，bunengrenqidama。danzhengchaofashengshi，womenhaishiyinggailianpihouyidian，baochilengjinghelizhi，xiantingtingtamenzaifanshenme，jinkenengtiliangtamen，zhishaoyaoanweitamenyixia。

 zhenzhengzhangjiudeganqingbushihonghonglielie，ershixishuizhangliu，suoyiyaoxuehuiruhejingyingxishuizhangliudeaiqing，xiangxinnimendeganqinghuiqingbijinjian。