比分手还痛苦的就是被冷暴力分手

管有太多一些情侣起初的甜蜜、依赖程度很高，时间长了也会变得顺其自然。冷暴力分手或是被冷暴力分手是残忍的，但有时也是最不伤害彼此的善意谎言，作为面对人，会痛苦、会痛苦、会烦躁，但终究自己也要走出这个谜圈。

一、冷暴力分手

 jinguanyoutaiduoyixieqinglvqichudetianmi、yilaichengduhengao，shijianzhangleyehuibiandeshunqiziran，youxiexingweinvxingkenenghuiyizhikunhuo，birujiaowanglengdan、xinbuzaiyandengdeng；zaijinnianlai，chuleyigezhuanyoumingcilaijieshizheigeci：jiaowangzhongkaishibiandelengdan，buzaixiangyiqianyiyangyaobudingshijinidadianhua、buchangzaiyiqi，zhidaobicizhijiandeguanxibiandeguoyulengdan，congerwushengfenshou；ruheshebiebingruhejiejuebicizhijiandeqingganwentijiubijiaozhongyaole。

冷暴力被分手

1、liaotianbiandexishaodeliangren

 yuanlaideqinghuamianmian，xiangchujiule，huayejiuziranbiandeshao，fuqizhijianyouqinianzhiyang，hekuangqingdouchukaidexiaonianqingni。yanyudejianshaobudaibiaoshihuaishi，nvxingzongshihuizhaochuliyoulaifanboziji，xiangyaoyouyigezhengming，zhengmingzijideguannianshicuowude。

 buzailiaotianbingbudaibiaokenengyijinglengdan，ershibicigengjiayilai。xixinguanchayixieqingkuang，nimennenggougenghaodegoutongyixieliangrendeshiqing，youruyixiejiachangliduan，youruyixiebierendeqiushifenxiang，ruguohaiyouzheixiezhengminghaishizhengchang；lingwaiyouyuyixienanxinggoutongzheifangmianshao，danshinvxingkeyitongguozheizhongfangshilaitanzhitadexingquqingkuang。（liaojiachangshizhudongcanyushigehaoxinhao，bikaihuatiyeshihaoxinhao，weidumomobiaoshizanshangyubushuohuashigebuhaoxinhao）

 zheishi，nvfangzhudongtichu，duoquyixiemeiquguodedifang，youlechang、canting，huoshijingdiandengdeng，baochiganqingdexinxiangan，bingqiejiashenbicizhijiandetihui。

2、julikaishiyuezouyueyuan

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 dianhuadejianshaobianshiyanjuandekaishi，ruguonenggouguanianjilejieduifangzaiwaiqingkuang、zhichiduifang，neimezheiduan“lengbaoli”yehuihenkuaitubengwajie。

3、nvxingtichufenshoudeshitantaiduo

 congmingdenvxingzonghuiyongtichufenshoulaishitanduifang，suizheshitandeshenru，bianjidaoduifangshichangyaokaolvshifoufenshoudeshiji；wenzhongdenanxingqingkuang，henshaoyouzheizhongshitanxingwei；danshiyunvxinglaishuo，guoduodeshitanbianyijingjidaofenshouliuxialeyigezhongzi；youshiyinweizhangshijianqingganjiangwenhou，nvfangtichudefenshoushitankenengshiwuyi，danduiyunanxinglaishuoyijingshiyigexinhaoyutaijie。cishishanghaidemoguoyutichudenvxing。

4、benshilangcainvmao，luodeliangfenfei

 fuqizhijiande7nianzhiyangyouzhexuduodexiaoshi，chaochaonaonao，danzongshichuangtoudajiachuangweihe；ganqingzhijianxuyaobutingdeyouyixiexiaomaodun、xiaoshiqing，jitianxiaochaojizhoudachao，zuizhongganqinggengjiashen。suoyipingshiyouyixiexiaomaodunshihenheshide，guoyuweihumianzixingweidemaodun，youshishuangfangdouhuishengqi，danshilaiju“duibuqi”daogeqian，zailaiyidiandaoqianbuchang，cishibianshiganqingdeshihou，moyaoyinweibuchanggoutongerdaozhilengbaoli；benshilangcainvmao，zuizhongluodeliangfenfei。

冷暴力被分手

二、被冷暴力分手

 beilengbaolifenshoufangshidesharenyuwuxingdedifangzaiyurangnizaihenzhangyiduanshijiannei，qingxugenzhetazouerqiezhujianmishiziwo。meitiandouzaijiujieweishenme，nidesuoyouhuatibianchengletaniguanzhuhenduozheifangmiande，niguanzhupengyoudejingyanniouerhaiyaomazuizijijuedetaaini，niouranyouhuozaicankudeqingxinglizongjie。xiaobianzongjielejitiaowangyoudejingyanfenxiang，dajiakeyicankaoyixiazenyangkandaibeilengbaolifenshou。

1、wojuedezheizhongrendezuofashizuikechide，wozuizuishoubulezheiyangdefangshi。

 wodeqianrenjiushizheiyanggenwofenshoude，qishiwomenlianggerenzhijiandeganqinghenzaozhiqianjiuchuxianlewenti，danshi，womenlianggerenjingguojicijiliedezhengchaozhihou，woxuanzebaochichenmo，yinweitadezuipizigongfubiwolihai，meiyicichaojiadoushitabawoshuoku，ranhoubiwodaoqian，woyebushihennenggoujieshouzheiyangdefangshi。

 suoyitameicigenwochaojiadeshihou，wodoushimomotingzhe，zuihouyiciwomenfenshouzhiqiandemaodun，bingmeiyouchaodeduolihai，jiushitashuolewoyiju，ranhoubawojiremaole，woyebuxianglita，yushitajiukaishigenwolengzhan。

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 suoyiwoxiangshuo，ruguoniyudaozheiyangdeqingkuangdehua，yaoshinishizaiqibuguo，nikeyizhaoshangmenquzhaotadanaoyichang，mataliangjuyehao，fanzhengjiushitazuodebudui，benlaitajiushiyigezhanan。danshiruguonijuedemeibiyao，buyonggenzheizhongrenyibanjianshi。qishizijilengjingxialaixiangyixiang，queshizheizhongqingkuangmeibiyaogentajiaozhen，jiudangshizijideganqingdouweigouleba。

冷暴力被分手

 2、mianduixianshi！tingcongzijineixindeganjue，nihuiyouzhong“tahaoxiangbushineimeaiwole，tahaoxiangbushineimezaihuwole",woxiangshuodeshi，niyaoxiangxinzijideganjue，tajiushibuneimeaile。

renwulunshenmeshihou，doushiyaomianduixianshi，jieshouxianshi，zheihuatingqilaihaoxiangmeiyoushenmewenqing，danshishiruci。

 zheigeshihou，beilengbaoliduidaideyifangni，huiyouzhong”woshibushizuodebugouhaoa？wonalizuocuole？weishenmehuizheiyang？”fanerhuireluodezhaoduifang。

qishizheishiyinweizijishebudezheimeduonianlai，zijidefuchumeiyoudedaoxiangyaodejieguo，xinlihenbuganxin。

 beilengbaolifenshou，renshiyoudaliangdefumianqingxude。yidingyaoxuehuiruhejienazijidefumianqingxu，ruheanquanerbushangrendeshifangfumianqingxu。bazijidexinqingpingfuxia。

 jingxiaxinlai，buyaozaiquzhudonglianxiduifang，zuoyixiezijixihuandeshiqing。duyixieyoushendudeshu，xiexiedushubiji，huahua、duanlian，manmandebazhuyililahuidaozijishenshang。

 xunqiupengyouhejiarendebangzhu，biruzhaoguimiliaoliaotian，genmamaqingsuyixia。buguozheigeduiguimihejiarendeyaoqiubijiaogao，henshaoyourennengzuodaozhiqingting，bupingjiabujianyide。

 xiayibu，jiushiyaofenxi，zijizaizheiduanganqinglideshouhuoshishenme，zijidexinggeaihaosanguanshishenmeyangde，duifangshishenmeyangde？shiyinweiduifangtishengle，erzijihaishilaoyangzihaishiyinweixinggebuhe,zijixinliyaoyoudianshu。

yeyaoxuezhejieshou，aiqingxiaoshile，meiyourenheliyou，jiushibuaile。

 eyuxiangxiang、tichuzhiyizheizhongjiliedefangshi，doubushitaimingzhi，youshenmeyaoqiukeyibiaodachulai，yekeyiqingrenchumianshuo，yongwanzhuandefangshibiaoda，yougeyuhui，yimianyihoujianmiantaiganga。

ruguoyongweiquziji、taohaoduifangdefangshi，buyaozheiyangle，taitongkule，yaozhidao，qiangniudeguashibutiandeya。

 zenmeyangderenhuibeilengbaolifenshouni?wozongjieleyiquan wojuede3gezi  haoguniang!weishenmehaoguniangrongyizaoshoulengbaoli?yinweitamengenbentiaotibuchuhenifenshoudeliyousuoyitamentaobile.youderenshuotamenzaidengnishuofenshou ranhoushuohaobahaibuwanquanshizheiyang yinweihaoguniangtaihao tamenyishiyouxuyaoyoubuxiangfuzedaodineimejiuhuichuxianlenglengrerewangfandezhuangtai。